A little about me:
Friendly but a little shy, I'm looking for a good, kind woman to share and enjoy life with. Uncomfortable putting myself on display like this (as I know we all are), I nonetheless see this social adventure as a good way to reach out in search of a trusted companion. To this end, I'm not trying to make this profile 'jump out' at everybody, but only to attract those few who know what they're looking for and think that I might come close.
I have a lot of life left to live. I don't want to do it alone. I have a happy disposition by nature. I work hard, I'm strong, and I'm healthy. I'm also clean, neat, dependable, and independent. I don't have any bad habits and I'm not overly particular about much of anything. I want someone in my life that I can make happy, and find gratification and happiness myself in so doing. In short, I'm not looking for a mother, I'm looking for a partner.
Heavily professionally engaged, but not a workaholic, I enjoy hiking in the local State and National Parks when time allows (which I would do more of with someone to join me). I enjoy the refreshing serenity of nature, but need a little help to find my way there more often. I have a desk job, so I’m at the gym 5 or more days/week on the machines and lifting weights.
A little about the one I’m looking for:
I'm searching for a strong woman who's intelligent, loving and down-to-earth (i.e., real). I don't have unrealistic expectations of perfection (though I do believe it to be happily true that "love is blind"). I look for the same honesty and integrity in her that she will find in me.
In a sound and meaningful relationship, which must include good communication, individual likes and dislikes can all be mutually accommodated. That is, with the love of sharing, we'll each learn to like what the other likes. There’s no need for a laundry list of items here.
I don't see myself as anyone's "knight in shining armor". I'm just a reasonably normal person looking for another reasonably normal person. Clearly stated, I want to make a new friend that subsequently becomes my wife and closest confidant (while always remaining my friend). I'm not looking for less than this.
A new union is not suddenly going to result in international travel 24/7/365. I have a job and people I love depend on me. In the real world, and as mature caring adults, we'll make time for special events (both large and small) together and with others that are special to us.
For my part, this is a serious and dedicated quest to find a woman that I can love, and who can love me, so that we can build a strong and lasting relationship together. Done right, happiness follows.
In Conclusion:
I've answered a lot of generic questions about myself in this personal resume. These answers provide general information as a starting point. However, perhaps more to the point, I'm happy, honest, and straightforward. As we all have, I've had a few hard knocks in life, but they've left me stronger and the better for it. What this all comes down to is that I want a good woman in my life to share with. Life can't be enjoyed to it's fullest when you're alone.
If you're reading this material about me, please be assured that it's no more or less than stated. I'm not flashy or overly socially talented. I'm just a regular person looking for somebody special (in my eyes) to fall in love and team up with. If you connect in some meaningful way with any of what I've said above, please contact me. It's unlikely that you're any more intimidated by this than I am.
As a final point of clarity, this is not a casual adventure. This is my most important personal business. I'm completely serious about this and would greatly appreciate any who have other objectives to look elsewhere. Thanks. Bob H.
