About me - Let's face it, I'm in my 20's so I guess I would say at this point I'm ever-changing.
Four years ago, I would have said I was the party girl who wasn't looking to settle down. I was always up for an insane party or I was planning trips around the world to see international DJs. Life never stopped and the good times kept on rolling. It was great!
But let's face it, at some point people need to grow up (I'm doing so while kicking and screaming)!
At this point in my life, I still love planning trips to see international DJs, but I'm trying to put some of the partying behind me: I'm cognizant that I need to reign in my energy and start spending more time with my family and friends who have been there for me most! With that said, I'm ready to settle down in a relationship as well.
I just moved to Fort Lauderdale after living in Chicago for five years. I wouldn't say I'm lookng for anything too serious right away. I am looking for more of a friend to start with - someone to show me the ropes of South Florida. I don't drink so I would prefer hitting the beach, kayaking, learning to surf, playing some beach volleyball or going skydiving. The possibilities are endless!
As for what I am seeking in a man, I am seeking someone who likes to be on the move. If you want to sit around and watch T.V., chances are I will be poking you so that we can go to dinner, go see a play, or go rollerblading. I was a total tomboy as a girl so I can't stand to sit still! I don't want to ever be that couple that just comes home from work every day and sits in front of the tube.
In addition, I need someone who is hopelessly romantic and sensual. I love surprises big or small and I love holding hands in public or pecking each other on the lips while we're out. I also love to cook and I always appreciate a kiss on my neck while I'm stirring my homemade tomato basil soup. ; )
Finally, I need someone who is honest. Once trust is broken, it is hard for me to be invested in a relationship. I believe that trust is the foundation of a relationship. I am a very honest person - almost to a fault - and I expect the same in return.
Well, I'm kinda rambling at this point. I know I talked more about what I'm looking for than who I am but as I said before, I always seem to be changing and growing as a person.
I will conclude by saying this: I believe in perfect altruistic love and I won't give up until I've found it. I have no doubt in my mind that it exists. Once I find the right person, I will make sure that person is the happiest man in the world. To love something passionately is to whittle the world down to a more manageable size. What a beautiful concept!