After watching over 50 commercials for this site I decided to try it. Why? I just moved to the New Jersey area and don't know anyone here. I am looking to meet new people whether it be someone to go to a broadway show/sporting event or someone I could see myself dating. I have two roommates who informed me about this site and others. Let's cut to the chase, if you want to know how I feel about relationships here it is..
I’m a hopeless romantic when it comes to love, but I don’t believe in love at first sight. I consider it just pure lust than anything else. I think the perfect person for everyone out there exists but it’s your job to either keep them in your life or not. Studies show majority of couples stay together out of comfort, low self worth, or for other wrong reasons. I think that’s the main reason half of us never find our soul mates….we linger too much with the wrong person, because we are scared to start over or desperately want it to work. I never want to be that person even if that means being single for years. I would rather be alone and have love find me by chance, than be with someone because it’s the easier choice.
FYI if your looking for just a hook up don't bother messaging me and wasting my time and your time.