Nice guy here who doesn't get out often enough, and who wants a nice gal for an activity partner or casual dating. Not ready to talk about long-term commitments, but you never know what could happen.
I'm financially stable, emotionally mature & available, and pretty damned funny. I'm the one always trying to make you smile or laugh with a stupid joke or witty repartee, which is cover for the depth of interest and, well, intellect, underneath. I have traditional values oozing out my pores, and Mother made sure I know how to treat a lady right: I open doors, pull chairs, offer my jacket, pick up the tab, wait for you to get ready patiently & compliment you when you finally appear. A woman is like a cat: she likes to be scratched behind the ears, and it often makes her purr with satisfaction.
So why am I here? I'm pretty shy and bookish, and between my job and church I don't come into contact with many available womens. Internet to the rescue, kinda: I've gone out with a couple of nice gals, and a couple of whackos (I mean, they had the trophies on their shelves), but nothing has stuck, so the search goes on.
Looking for a nurturer at heart. Medium-energy, likes the nice dinner & stimulating conversation, but has a little sense of adventure: can jump nto jeans & won't freak out if her hair gets wet. If you're in a helping profession, as I am, all the better. At the core, someone who likes being a woman and doesn't struggle for dominance in a relationship; not because I'm looking for someone completely submissive, though I am the man, after all, but because I find comeptitive personalities tiring: totally not who I am.
Good luck in your search, and don't be afraid to give shy boy here a little nudge.
