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39 year old woman
Dallas, Texas, United States

Seeking:
men 35-48
Within:
25 Miles of Dallas, Texas, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian, Other
Body type:
Slender
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I still believe in true love and ONE person. That is primarily why I have stayed single. They were not the one and it has kept from making poor decisions, for me. Love is, two ordinary, imperfect people that love each other EVERYDAY and NEVER give up. It takes work, real work.

I don't live the bar life but I am a woman on the go and in transition! I work hard but play hard even if it is just napping. I refuse to settle long-term for a boring job or doing something just because society dictates it, or is part of an unhealthy routine. Love is the same way. I am not the "typical woman." I tend to be more honest straightforward than most. Just because I don't "wear my heart on my sleeve" doesn't mean I lack deep feelings. In fact, I'm deeply committed to my loved ones the causes I believe in. I am a mixture of wild/conservative w/ down-to-earth morals. I have a very private side yet am very social. It does take time to get to know me which means I am not the girl you text a number to and try and score a date without meaningful conversations/connection upfront. I am independent, visionary, creative analytical. I have a big heart, am very easy to talk to and open to new things. The simple things in life are what bring me the most amount of joy. What you see is what you get personally and visually.
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My spirituality with God is key in my life and am am looking for the same. Religion and spirituality are TWO different things!
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I have hair ADD which totally changes my look! ;) Yes they are ALL current. And I am somewhat feisty/passionate!
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I would rather be direct & upfront so no one's time is wasted. I appreciate the same respect.
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I am not a fan of winks or 'likes' and rarely respond to them....... Please send an email! I REALLY like people who are engaging to start a conversation. Just a 'tip'! ;) And I do respond to email.
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I so appreciate a gentleman with solid follow-up skills because they are paying attention & I do the same.
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I am looking for someone who HAS TIME to develop something MEANINGFUL with me & being together to really connect. The emotional ADD person need not bother. If one hiccup makes you run, please move on. That negates the opening paragraph.
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So for the wish list: According to life expectancy statistics, GenXers will live to be around 84. If that is true, then I might as well ask for what I want and see what happens! What do I like in a person: honesty, integrity, honor, intelligence and loyalty. He has to have God TRULY in his life. Not letting fear and secrets run your life is VERY important but it also has to be balanced with a sense of humor as well as a sense of adventure/spontaneity. I want someone who would look out for me like I would for him. It is about respecting each other's feelings and about not personal selfish agendas that would NOT hurt the other person. Compromise is the key thus making it possible to have your cake and it too! He needs to be able to keep up mentally and physically but realize it is not a competition, (unless I am winning. Haha.). I want him to know who he is, what he wants and where he is going in life like I do.
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Regarding kids - I'm open to adoption or someone having existing children. Please have been OFFICIALLY DIVORCED at least by 2.5 years and over your ex.
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PLEASE NOTE THE FOLLOWING: 1) I am 42 having to lower my age to show up in your demographic vs seeing people old enough to be my grandfather/father or teenager! Hope you understand. ;) 2) Please email. If it works, 2-3 emails before calling live. If we have done a good job of communication, it will be a great date because we have a connection and that is why we are here, right? :) 3) If text is your way get to know someone, ask out or overall communicate, please move on. The digital wasteland isn't for me. Nothing good ever good happens with text and it sets the wrong tone. This is about PERSONAL CONNECTION and text is so impersonal. See last pic.

Interests:
Book club, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

I just love animals! I question a person that doesn't!

Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Things that I enjoy: I like traveling, dining out, learning, racing, dancing, reading, collecting, skydiving, music, my cat, career, cooking, internet and helping others. Honest conversation a plus! There is so much more I want to do!

Favorite hot spots:

I have been blessed with GREAT career that has allowed me travel throughout the US and other countries. Love it! Looking forward to new adventures!

Favorite things:

See the 'For Fun' section.

Last read:

I read WAY too many books to list! I also read a lot of stuff off the net too. There should be a box for blogs that one reads since I am into techie blog sites! So much to learn....

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'10" (177cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Auburn / Red
Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

Blessed to love and have my career! I fought to keep it during these challenging times. NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR DREAMS!

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Not sure
Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic, White / Caucasian, Other
Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Half Jewish and Spaniard.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

Please note: I am spiritual NOT religious. HUGE difference. That means not only do I have my beliefs, study and fellowship, I am not an empty label that people use that are void in action. I'm not into man made religion. I'm into truth.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

I've two BA's and numerous certifications.

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