Sweet, sincere, honest, conscientious, fit, responsible, fun, laid back nurse looking for the same qualities in a cool guy who is emotionally expressive and thinks I'm the greatest catch he'll ever find. We're both open to try new things, talk things through, set goals, fall in love, take time to get to know each other, build up solid careers... and eventually raise beautiful kids. I don't mind dating around a little to explore different chemistry possibilities but if you're still getting over your ex I won't waste my time, (it takes TIME guys. it's the only cure) Also... if you're not the type for commitment, I will see through you in a New York minute.
Some great first date ideas.... coffee and conversation, bowling, tennis, watch the sunset from a casual rooftop restaurant. While we're on the subject of restaurants, let's discuss the bill... I think I would like to postpone if you're not ready and able to risk making a great first impression by taking care of the tab. How about we go further and say this....I won't be interested in a 2nd date if you don't decide you like me enough to risk 20-30 bucks on my dinner.
Hopefully you can tell I'm dating with intention here. I'm fun and easy going, but I have my career solidly started, am deeply emotionally available, tend toward the responsible and accountable side, and am far more attracted to solid citizens than comics and artists. On the other hand, why choose one over the other? How about all of the above?
So... should we talk sex? Guess you can tell I'm not exactly in a hurry. Chemistry is awesome and I'd love to be swept off my feet, but even then I'll be holding off on sealing the deal until we've had a chance to see how at home we feel with each other, how our individual styles work for or against each other under stress, whether the prevailing winds are blowing us out to sea or whether they are merely a minor nuisance on an otherwise peaceful beach.
If you are smart, fun, responsible, moral, honest, dependable, and if you are confident of your ability to convince me, my friends, and my family that your interests, attitudes, talents, and goals willl enhance my life, not subtract from it, let's talk. We probably won't fall in love at first sight, but we might enjoy each other's company very much, and that might be the start of something very good.