Well where to begin. my headline says a lot. I am an aspiring dj/artist/musician who loves music [mostly electronic and alternative] but i'm open-minded to most music [tollerant]. I have been a dj for over 15 yrs. and someday i know my hard work will pay off[hopefully][i want to be an international electronic dj/musician. sharing the wonderful world of music. [i can dream cant i?] but i work sales and manage a pc/video game store while i work on that dream. It pays the bills and I like the subject material. I am into movies mostly Sci-fi, adventure, action and yes some classics and romantic comedies. i usually dont watch TV but when i do its usually sci-fi channel or history, learning, or watcha video.. TV rots yer brain.. its nice to watch but i usually spend most of my free time dj'ing, working on music, or surfing the net, or playing PC games. I like to snow ski [dwnhill] and swim, hike camp, and i recently tried water jetskiing a couple summers ago. i like the outdoors but im defintely a city rat.i've travelled a bit [nyc, new orleans, maine, florida, mostly the north east but i want to see the west [la,sf] [update.. I saw SF last spring ,would go back, want to see LA and other midwest [az,co] always thought i'd live in san fran someday[or at least visit it, again]. i'm open minded, adventurous, outgoing, honest, loyal, caring, and am very friendly and close with most of my family and friends. there's alot more. but you get as glimpse. i await patiently what/who i am to encounter and experience... Carpe Diem! Update:More likes: good Cologne/Perfume, Inscense, Candles, Black Light and good mood lighting, Fireplaces and the smell of buring wood, ie;campfires, Earth Tones, Animals [esp Cats/Dogs too] Getting lost in moment: no matter what it is:ie: Sunsets, Sunrises, Dancing to music and feeling a vibe connection, letting it move you; Looking into someone's eyes and connecting while you're conversing, Quoting some movie/pop culture and someone getting it. more...well what more to say?[lots] i like / have a soft spot for redheads[and a close second..brunettes].[ie. i melt].but thats just a hair preference..its the persona,personality and total package that counts.. but i am looking for someone who is kind, sweet, caring, wants to share & experience life with, honest, able to speak their mind, and able to communicate their needs as well as understand what i want, open-minded, outgoing, adventurous, is smart, both intelligent and streetsmart, have a good head on her shoulders, have a job[rewarding?], be emotionally and financially secure [lets work out our lives not depend upon another..despite all of us have faults..lets us be together what ea. of us individually can not be] have a pretty face and is attractive, both outer and inner beauty, and can laugh and have a good time.. not take life so seriously but be serious when its needed. i'm looking for someone who has some interests as me.. but also to share our differences together..it makes life more interesting and fun.. i want someone who has a sense of life as an adventure and each day will bring something new. if u feel you stopped learning.. you've stopped living.. there is only one life and it's by living it and constantly embracing it do we learn what its about and exp. it sometimes that changes us.. but isnt worth the trip?... too much to ask for?.. i dont know maybe it's the dreamer and romantic in me .. well ive said alot.. your turn... I can't wait to hear what you have to say.... I guess knowing yourself well will help you adn your potential mate find out about you and increase the chance of being 'soulmates' or well matched. Life is a journey that changes constantly, are we not constantly evolving? trying to be /do better? There's always a chance to renew, restart, and refresh everything, are we not a sum of all our parts? physical, mental, spiritual, sexual, and sum of our experiences: past , present and desired future experiments?