Ok, stop! Before you even respond, please look at what I am looking for! I hate these sites cause I am sick of 50 year old men or WAY out of shape guys responding to me! No offense, but I know what I am looking for..so with that said, before I cancel my subscription all ready, all little about myself; Well I just moved to Raleigh the week before Christmas. So I am trying to learn my way around, so far so good though, Super Walmart is .5 miles away! ;-) I am an independant single mom, so looking for someone to just lesson the burden and who wants to enjoy life. Unfortunately all I focus on is work and my son, it is time for more. I love being outdoors and very blessed for all that I have and have become. Emancipated at 16, I'm ready to finally start to relax and enjoy life. I rose up from nothing, so good to find a man who knows how to work hard to meet his goals in life. I hope to attract a man who does understand me, likes to be outdoors and is willing to just go places when we get bored. I do want a man who is truthful no matter how good or bad it is. Honesty means everything to me! I would like a christian man who understands the role a man plays in a family. My son is my life so he has to be a good role model and father figure as well. I do love to run..or maybe jog, lol...but it is my stress relief. I like to laugh so someone with a good sense of humor is always a plus. I like to go boating and camping, and hiking. Sometimes just staying in and playing board games or cards is a wonderful night. I do cook, but would definitely love a man who cooks! :-) I just want someone who understands relationships are 50/50. And it is the simple things in life that mean the most. An arm around the waist or a kiss on the forehead means more than diamond earrings.