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43 year old woman
Chicago, Illinois, United States

Seeking:
men 35-50
Within:
50 Miles of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I love a romantic comedy. Afterall, what girl doesn't want to be swept off her feet by a charming and handsome hero she can call her own? However....at some point during almost every romantic comedy, the female lead suddenly trips and falls, stumbling helplessly over something ridiculous like a leaf, and then some Matthew McConaughey type either whips around the corner just in the nick of time to save her or is clumsily pulled down along with her. That event predictably leads to the magical moment of their first kiss. Please. I fall ALL the time. You know who comes and gets me? The bouncer.

That being said, I was recently asked if marriage was something I was avoiding. My response was that I don't have a problem with marriage itself. In fact, I'd love to get married and have a baby or two, depending on how expensive they are. I just don't want to get divorced. A divorce is painful and bad and there's a lot of paperwork required, and I have a huge aversion to paperwork. If you are smiling at this point then there's a good chance you have a sense of humor which increases our chances of not only getting along, but getting each other. I can laugh at myself and really do believe that laughter is medicine for the soul.

A little about me: I'm driven and know what I want out of this life. I have little interest in drama and seek to constantly improve and grow from life's lessons and all that they are teaching me. No one is immune to troubles or pain so I try not to judge or compare myself to others. I will seek out the good in others and believe in second, third, even seventy times seven chances. In my world, mercy rules. Simply put, LOVE is my religion.

I seek to surround myself with positive, loving, uplifting and respectful people and cherish my friends and family. I am kind of old fashioned when it comes to dating and consider myself polite and poised and expect to be treated like a lady. I do appreciate it when a man opens doors for me, is the first to call after a date and in the beginning even initiates advancing the relationship to the something more than "just dating"

I think it does take a truly unique and strong man to balance me; a strong quiet confidence type who is graceful, patient, not quick to anger and has a genuine sweet core.

I want someone who I can feel vulnerable with and cherished by and who allows my light to show by shining his. Someone who believes in and has his own personal journey with God that I get to be a part of. Someone who I can be transparent before, exposing all my truths to, knowing that in his eyes is me. At the same time, I want to be a support system to a partner who possesses an intuitive and spiritual wisdom to understand who he is with me and who we are together.

It's the way I roll my eyes at him and give him that look like "I don't know why I love you but I do" when he's reading the morning newspaper and makes a political comment that I strongly disagree with. It's how excited I get when I see his number show up on a text in the middle of the afternoon just to say "hi". It's the way he looks at me while wearing his oversized T-Shirt to bed, which I affectionately refer to as my lucky shirt and refuse to go out of town without packing it.

It's a kiss, it's a soft touch, it's a good cry and a long walk holding hands and rocking out the rest of our lives, going grey and holding hands on a front porch together. It's about living a healthy lifestyle because you know it helps us to live a better life. We stick by each others side and have each others backs. And rainbows will flood our hearts and music will flood our minds, like a new Universe achieving soft unity. Pleasure paradise to find.

Interests:
Alumni connections, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Martial arts, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Aries
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Spending time with the most interesting man in the world who makes my heart race from the simple act of holding hands. With the right person, every activity is well spent and a good time--even trips to the dentist are fun with someone special.

Favorite hot spots:

Malibu and Zuma Beach, Townsquare or The District in Vegas, any mountain top, sandy beach or private backyard with a view are some of my favorite places to spend my time--especially with someone AMAZING.

Favorite things:

Live music, dining out and trying new restaurants, farmers market on a Sunday, watching Sunday night cartoons on FOX. Working out, kickboxing, going to UFC and amateur MMA fights, taking long rides on the back of a manly man's Harley down PCH.

Last read:

I've read the Bible. I've read Dylan. I'm reading TMZ now. It's much more chilling.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'2" (157cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'1" (185cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference

I own and operate a full-service artist and brand development company made up of true music and marketing lovers. My firm merges together public relations, marketing, radio, and social media strategy.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
$50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Someday
Definitely, Someday
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

Half lucky four leaf clover and half spicy jalapeno. In other words, my mom's family is off the boat Irish and my father's people swam over here from Spain.

Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Associates degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree

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