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43 year old man
San Gabriel, California, United States

Seeking:
women 32-49
Within:
25 Miles of San Gabriel, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Abstract: I am a University Science Professor and recently divorced father of two girls. Contrary to what my profession implies, I am not socially awkward; I am very energetic, great with people, and am usually the life of the party (I will make you laugh till you cry). My goal here is to ultimately find a partner, companion, counterpart and best friend to make some lasting memories (while probably forging some new friendships along the way).

Introduction: I am originally from Arizona but my family roots are in the upper mid-west which may explain my inherent core values (honesty, integrity, hard work, etc.). I am serious and driven in my career. Besides teaching, I have my own laboratory where my research group studies breast cancer and stem cells; greatest job in the world. My two daughters (10 and 13) are the most important things in my life and take up most of my "spare" time. I am awesome with kids and have no problems if you have your own.

I would describe myself as a living paradox. I am an extroverted introvert (love to go out but love to stay home alone). I am an optimistic pessimist (I try to be a pessimist so I will never be disappointed but can’t help myself!). I am a cynical idealist (always want to make things better for others but the machine constantly thwarts my efforts!). I am a serious joker (a driven person but always injects humor into any situation; even very inappropriate situations). I am also a manly girly-man (I play rugby football but proudly drive a minivan and clip coupons). If you were worried, no, I am not bipolar.

Results (Positive): My friends would probably say that my best attribute (and favorite thing to do) is to make people laugh. I love getting to that moment where someone will laugh and let their guard down, they relax; that’s when you get to meet the real them. I will try anything to get a laugh. My main weapons are sarcasm and self-deprecation. I am also relatively adventurous in trying anything once (with exceptions, of course). I want to see as much and experience as much before I can’t, know what I mean?

Results (Negative (?)): I can be opinionated (52% of the time I am right all the time) but my views can be changed if the discussion is rooted in facts and logic – faith, gut-feelings, obscure correlations, etc. are irrelevant. Which brings up religion… I am an atheist. I will not, however, judge you based on your religious views just as long as we keep our (dis)beliefs to ourselves; let’s agree to disagree. Unless you reject evolution, in which case I urge you to immediately close your browser, put on your red Nike shoes and drink the grape Kool-Aid (see: Natural Selection).

Conclusions: I am looking for a partner who, like me, is genuine, honest and open. Life is too short to play games and to try to mold ourselves to be someone we are not. This was a painful but important lesson I learned from my marriage. Another important lesson was the need for communication – we must talk honestly and constantly; none of that passive aggressive stuff or burying our feelings. This will easily make us best friends and strengthen all aspects of our relationship. I am looking for a confident, independent, strong woman who takes care of herself (and family); she doesn’t need a man but she wants one. Please do not respond if you are clingy or insecure (emotionally or physically) or if you have been described as “high maintenance” – I will not be your emotional blanket, savior or Sugar Daddy. I am highly attracted to women who are intelligent, witty, driven, mature (intellectually) and know what they want. In most cases, age and race make no difference to me; it’s about connection. If the above describes you, please send me an email. Thanks.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Running, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I have had dogs pretty much my whole life. This is the first time in a long time that I have not had a canine companion.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Libra
College:
The University of Arizona, Tucson, AZ
For fun:

I really enjoy watching movies (anything from a documentary to cheesy horror flicks); helps me escape reality for 1.5-2 hrs. I look forward to kicking back and spending time with friends. I love watching and cheering for my kids in their sports.

Favorite hot spots:

I'm not really a "club-type" of guy; too loud and I like conversation. I prefer to be at a friend's party with adult beverages (i.e. kegger in their backyard) where we can all be ourselves and get goofy. Those are the times you remember.

Favorite things:

I love to eat out and try new restaurants/food. Been going to a lot of concerts lately seeing bands I have always wanted to see, which has been awesome. Like playing/watching competitive sports. Love my work and spending time with my amazing kids!

Last read:

I rarely get a chance to read books although I read all the time because of my work. The most recent was a review article in Molecular Cell entitled, "The Active Role of Chromatin in the DNA Damage Response". I suppose that speaks volumes about me...

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
4'8" (142cms) to 6'8" (203cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Salt and pepper
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Occasionally
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Education / Teacher / Professor
No preference
Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

I have no preference on ethnicity. In retrospect, I think I have only dated whites in the past so it would be great to meet/date non-whites.

Faith:
Atheist
No preference

I don't believe in (insert favored deity here), but for some reason I believe in Karma. Things happen for a reason and it all comes around. I have no problem if you are religious but please keep that between you and (insert favored deity here).

Languages:
English
English
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

BS and PhD from the University of Arizona (Go Cats!), did my post-doctoral work at the University of Virginia (Go Cavs!) and currently have my own laboratory at a major LA University.

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