For me to be happy I have learned that I need to be in Love and making money. I want to make money so that I can travel and do things. I also have learned that being with someone and not in love is not enough. I want to trust and be trusted. I do not have to be with that person 24 hours a day or do everything together. We do not have to share all the same interest. The more common interest we have the more time we can enjoy together. I am not in any hurry to live together or get married.