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51 year old man
Doylestown, Pennsylvania, United States

Seeking:
women 40-48
Within:
30 Miles of Doylestown, Pennsylvania, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Jewish
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

My friends tell me I'm kind, caring, sincere and funny. I'm young at heart I routinely hear I look 10 years younger than I am. For this I am eternally grateful. I usually give more of myself than I seek in return.

I love music. It provides oxygen to my soul. I play the drums and periodically make a complete fool of myself singing Karaoke. You will need to love music, too. If you want to accompany me to an occasional open mic night to watch me play, that would be very endearing. Soft jazz playing during a candle-lit, home-cooked meal... wellll.... sighhhh :-)

I'm grateful to have good health I go to great lengths to maintain it: running, biking, exercising regularly. Woman who do the same I find most attractive.

I try not to complain. I prefer to find the laughter in every moment. "Laugh at life or life will laugh at you", is my motto. I try to live it. Your self-deprecating sense of humor would be a perfect complement to my goofy willingness to laugh at myself and everything around me.

I look for every sunset. My daughter once asked me why. I replied, "because it's there and because I can". I hope you would feel the same way. Or close.

I love photography. Always have. Not quite sure why. I guess I just love finding, interpreting the beauty in every moment. I hope you do, too!

I'm nocturnal. Always have been. I seem to gain energy from the night. Perhaps it's the stillness, the quiet, the peace. Maybe it's just my brain chemistry or wiring. Cuddling by a warm fire as the sun rises would be my idea of a perfect way to spend time with you.

I like to speak and write. I think grammar is important. Not knowing the difference between there, they're and their is a turn-off.

Big cars and fancy bling don't impress me. If you make something from nothing? That's sexy!

Some of my thoughts:
The sun comes out after every storm. After every night there is a dawn.

Things happen for a reason. We don't always know why at that exact moment. But we eventually understand. Patience.

Open your eyes, you will see. Open your ears, you will hear. Open your mind, you will learn. Open your arms, you will receive. Open your heart, you will feel.

WELL You've made it this far, so I might as well share a few thoughts. This can be uncomfortable. But I prefer honesty. Sometimes honesty hurts. But I'd rather be up-front with my thoughts and feelings than waste each other's time. I hope you agree. So here goes:

I am a very visual person. I suppose this is true of most guys. It's how we're wired. Thus, physical attraction is an important ingredient for me. It's called nature! Different people are attracted to different things. Sometimes the spark comes from something that is not even seen. So, please be honest about who you are. And if I tell you I'm not interested, don't be upset with me. Don't be insulted. It's just one of many instances when the stars are not aligning. I've been there plenty of times. We all have. At the same time, please be honest with me. I won't be offended if I don't tickle your fancy.

Please keep your winks to yourself. They work great in a bar setting. But Match.com has been kind enough to provide all the tools to make a connection. Send me an intelligent e-mail. Let me know why you're contacting me - what intrigues you. Allow your intelligence, personality, sense of humor and energy to shine through. Your words are like your canvass. Paint me a picture. Capture my imagination! Don't be shy. I don't bite.

I swore I would never do the online dating thing. But a few of my friends said it's fun, and it beats the pick-up scene at the bar. I prefer to enjoy the live music at the bar, and meet intelligent attractive woman in a way that allows us to get to know each other gradually. This seems like it just might be the right venue.

Now the ball is in your court. If you like what you saw and read, pick it up and run with it! Regardless, I wish you well in your pursuits.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I love pet photography! Volunteered at the SPCA to photograph many of the animals as they were awaiting their forever homes. It takes a lot of patience but is very rewarding and amusing!

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Pisces
College:
State University of New York at Binghamton, Binghamton, NY
For fun:

Live music (I play drums),photography,sunrises/sets, h/biking, running, quiet talks, holding hands, spooning, being outdoors, baseball, board games, dancing, etc. Not hard to please. Willing to try just about anything that doesn't risk life and limb.

Favorite hot spots:

Cape May, OBX, La Jolla, Maui and Kauai, New York City, a peaceful lake, a quiet cafe, a crowded dance floor, almost any live music venue...

Favorite things:

Music - most genres; Discovering a small, quiet cafe. An occasional dark beer or glass of wine; Laughing at myself and making others laugh; Avid veggie gardener; Movies; Sunsets; Cuddling in front of a warm fire. Spooning dusk to dawn.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'2" (157cms) to 5'5" (165cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
Blue, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Dark blonde
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Self-Employed / Entrepreneur
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Probably not
Probably not
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian
Faith:
Jewish
Christian / Catholic, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious

Raised Jewish, am somewhat spiritual and willing to learn about other faiths

Languages:
English, French
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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