Let me start by saying, I’m a full-time mom so the majority of my time is with my kids, if you can’t understand that, this won’t work.
Since everyone else goes with the friends’ endorsement, mine would say, I’m fun, smart, independent with a lot to offer who doesn’t like to settle for less.
If you ask my exes, they’d probably say, I’m stubborn, like to be right, and fiercely protective of my friends and family (they’d probably say a few other things but we’ll leave those out for now).
If you ask me, I’d say, I’m fun, independent, busy, happy, and secure in myself and not looking for a man to “complete” me. I like sports (to watch and play) and hanging out in a casual atmosphere but also like going out for an occasional fancy night out. I have a friendly, competitive spirit but won’t rub it in when I win (okay, maybe just a little). I’m direct and straightforward and don’t like to play games. I don’t do the passive aggressive thing and won’t stick around if you do. I think I’m funny but I’ll let you be the judge of that.
I’m still getting used to this whole online dating thing so it may take me a little time to warm up but once I do I like to be fun and flirty. It’s hard to determine if there’s a spark or chemistry by looking at a photo and reading a profile.
What am I looking for? That special someone with some shared interests who makes me laugh. I don’t have a “type” but there are some definite deal breakers. No smokers, no cheaters, and no cat owners (I’m allergic, no bee keepers either - still allergic). Must have a job with a steady income and be financially stable. Must be emotionally stable, I lived through my own divorce; I’m not interested in living through yours. Must have a sense of humor and be able to laugh at yourself, as well as life in general. Must have personal and professional goals and not be afraid to go for it, all while balancing life and responsibility. Must be honest in a relationship and be ready to share. Most importantly, you must be able to handle and appreciate a strong, independent woman as a partner and an equal.
If you’re interested, let me know. We can start a conversation and see where it goes. I believe mutual attraction, chemistry, comfort, and ease is important in starting a relationship. And please don’t contact me if you don’t have a recent, accurate picture of yourself or if you don’t fit my age profile. Thanks for reading and good luck in your search!