I run four businesses and am very active and full of energy. My shoulders are wider than my hips, which translates to =NO kids, and not time for. I will have fun with my friends's kids and my nieces for a few hours, but the sweet sign of sending them off to their parents is best for me. I'm the cool aunt that they can relate to, and not have to discipline.
I travel cross-country and occasionally to Europe and have an amazing family of friends that have supported my endeavors more than my own family would ever do. Thus I do not understand the guy who places his family first. My family comes after my friends, because that is how they place me (middle child, works 2x as hard for half the appreciation). Of course, the middle child is always the most successful, which, I am, and will continue to be.
My energy reserve is for a guy who loves THE BEACH and THE POOL and is IN SHAPE to show off his efforts. I don't do pale, flabby, whining male feminine types. I lift weights and box and practice yoga for my career and personal enhancement, so my muscles should not rival yours. I also love to eat and as my many male friends observe, " You can put it away!" I eat to nourish my physique, not to gorge on garbage.
It seems like no matter what I write about wanting in a guy, 467 different types of NOT continue to pollute my site. If you despise smart tailored clothing and footwear, exercise, looking fantastic and loving who you are & your accomplishments (spare me the "Confident not cocky BS"), then you will quickly despise me because I will not tolerate trying to change a man, You either bring to the table who you are, and do not need to post 6 pictures of you with other women to prove your masculinity, or your mother to prove your loyalty, or your damn dog/cat (self-esteem issues!) or just leave me the F alone and move on to the next idiot who WILL tolerate it bc she is too stupid to see through your incompetence.
My brother is a 3 time Military vet and Purple Heart, and is SWAT and 6'2". I am used to that level of protection and physique, so if you do not come close to any of those, he will get rid of you before you even have a date with me.