I'm a mother of 3.. 2 sons ages 12 and 9 and a daughter age 7. I also have an ex step-daughter (age11) that I'm very close with that I still see quite often. I'm okay with finding someone with children... or not, but I do not want more children.
The qualities I'm looking for in a man....First and foremost they must be a good role model for my children. I would like to find someone that can make me laugh. That can find humor in any situation, but also knows when to be serious. Someone that isn't afraid to open up to me and tell me their secrets and who will listen to mine. Someone that I can have inside jokes with and who will call me just because they missed the sound of my voice. Someone who values my opion and is there for me when I need someone to talk to. I would like for this person to have a career. A person who is passionate about life...me. Someone who wants to hold hands, cuddle (sometimes) and experience life with me. Drinking is okay (I'm a social drinker that can hold my own ;) ) but know where the limit is. Don't get me wrong I like to have fun and party but the needs of my children and household come first.
A little about me..I'm a caring, easy going, try anything once kind of gal....yes I did just say gal...lol. I like to take long weekends to not so far destination and make the most of it. I believe that ones' attitude can make or break the day. I'm not sure if I should say this or not, but I want to find someone I can grow old with. So we could one day look back on our lives and say that we did it. We made it thru the good and the bad. I relalize that life happens, peoples feels get hurt, but I also believe that thru the bad couple can grow stronger if they both have the same goals, values...whatever you want to call it. As you can probably tell by now I'm a little bit of a romantic.
This "special someone" must understand that I will need to move slow at the beginning. I will not bring my kids around a lot of different people.
If your interested give me a wink ;)