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30 year old woman
Boston, Massachusetts, United States

Seeking:
men 29-36
Within:
30 Miles of Boston, Massachusetts, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

If we happened to be in the same room, I would probably get to you before you even had a chance to decide on one of your pickup lines. People say I'm flirtatious. A colleague once told me that I "got game" after he observed me "hitting on" some guy at a bar. Yes, I approach guys that I find attractive. Because possible rejection doesn't scare me. My self-worth is defined by so much more than a random guy's reciprocation.

I moved back to Boston last year to recharge my batteries after finishing grad school. You would never guess that I have a PhD in chemistry just by looking at or talking to me. I have a bubbly, animated, and expressive disposition. I wear make up, like shopping and dressing up, and was a regular at frat parties during college. I also know how to chop wood, fix stuff around the house, use a soldering iron, etc. And probably better so than most of you ;)

I'm a naturalized US citizen. Four years of my childhood were spent in a town under siege, during which my father was killed by a piece of shrapnel. My brother and I were one of those kids you see on TV running after UN convoys begging for candy. Since 1996, my focus has been on getting an education and making sure that my mom didn't work three jobs for nothing. So, when you tell me about your family's summer vacations and all the trips you've taken around the world or about your skiing, skydiving, and snorkeling hobbies, don't be surprised if I look at you in wonder without the ability to relate. I'll ask you to tell me all about those things, and while your stories will be awe-invoking, they won't impress me because my interest lies in your character not your adventures.

When I was 12 years old, I learned to speak English by watching TV with subtitles. I haven't turn them off since.

A good friend is convinced that I love attention. If that really is the case, it's worth mentioning that the older I get, the less I seek it.

I don't know how to drive.

I get stuck on written solecisms. I'm sorry. I can't help it. My family and friends hate me for it.

I live in my own little world most of the time. Solitude can be an awesome companion. I think that the world would be a much better place if more people learned to sit still and reflect.

I have a good head on my shoulders. The most trouble I ever got into was for chewing gum in class or calling out my teachers.

The greatest pleasure in life and what gets me up in the morning is doing what people say I cannot do, especially when it's paired with a minuscule amount of inherent self-doubt.

I became a vegan because my brother said that I "could never" be that disciplined.

I declared chemistry as my major in college because a classmate said that I was "not cut out" for it.

I'm happiest when I'm on a mission and in flow.

I tend to be naive and suck at reading people, but I have a knack for opening them up. I attribute the latter to being nonjudgmental. To each his own, as long as nobody gets hurt, right?

For those of you who place any value on the MBTI, I am an INFJ.

I dread small talk. I prefer one-on-one interactions that allow me to dig deep.

I have an awful habit of gradually changing topics and making the conversation be about me. Fortunately, I have been made aware of that a long time ago. Unfortunately, old habits die hard.

The only things I want from people are their time and attention. I'm stingy with mine. I give my time only to those I deem worthy of it. When it comes to people, quality makes me happier than quantity.

I've dated enough to know what I want in a relationship and the kind of quirks I'm willing to tolerate. At the very core, I really just want to elegantly intertwine with another human being and click with him on all levels (physical, intellectual, emotional, and spiritual).

If you are intimidated by this, please know that the most common adjective used to describe me is SWEET.

Interests:
I'll tell you later
Sports & exercise:
I'll tell you later
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
I'll tell you later
Sign:
I'll tell you later
College:
I'll tell you later
ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'11" (180cms) to 6'6" (198cms)
Body type:
About average
No preference
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

Postdoc

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

Eastern European

Faith:
Buddhist / Taoist
No preference
Languages:
English, Other
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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