I am a good person with a big heart who is more sensitive than gruff, so if you're looking for that roughneck, keep on searching! I enjoy life and everything it has to offer, even the unpredictability of it all. I like to be active and outgoing at times, and at other times, I like to be a subdued homebody. I have been married and divorced and am not particular about dating anyone with a similar relationship history, as long as they are ok with mine. I like to play sports and go hiking and hit the beach as often as I can, and I would love to find someone who enjoys these activities as well. Otherwise, I am extremely personable, funny and witty and carry myself with a quiet confidence. I don't like confrontation, but I won't back away from one either. I am interested in making that special connection with someone, as opposed to trying to connect with as many women as possible. In a head to head contest, quality will always trump quantity.