DESIGNER ITALIAN SHOE IMPORTER/Vintner/Massage Therapist, seeks woman that likes to receive massages while sipping on wine and trying on new shoes all day……
Well that would be nice. I however I'm not that guy, in fact I’m pretty sure that guy only exists in romance novels and day dreams with magical unicorns. But as evidenced by my headline I do know a few things about women, and I have a sense of humor. I also regularly give out massages, although I’m admittedly not a professional :o(
In reality I’m an accountant. And I already know what you’re thinking, ‘How am I supposed to compete with all the groupies and hard partying that are synonymous with accounting?’ Well this is your lucky day because I’m probably the only accountant around that wants to leave the groupies behind and settle down and have a normal family someday. And being an accountant I can do your taxes for you, then give you a massage, and buy you wine and designer shoes all in the same day!
So I don’t know exactly what you’re looking for in a guy, but I am loyal, caring, friendly and respectful of others. I’d like to think I’m creative, reasonably intelligent, and goal oriented, but don’t take myself too seriously ;o) I’m independent and have a great assortment of friends and feel that it’s good to have some alone time as well. I love to have fun and joke around, even at my own expense. I'm fairly adventurous and love to travel. I’m a positive person 90% of the time, but can be a realist when necessity dictates. I'm pretty laid back and believe that finding the right balance between work and play is critical. I love outdoor activities, and like to stay in shape. But also enjoy going out for a night on the town and socializing with friends.
What else? I love animals, but don’t have any right now. I do have an assortment of houseplants though. I did my undergrad at UC Santa Barbara, Go Gauchos! And recently finished my masters at SDSU. I was thinking about getting a PHD and being a professor some day, but after the last two semesters I need a break from academia, at least for a while.
I’m a great cuddler and most of the time a boatload of fun, although I can be a bit shy when I first meet someone that I like (like having a high school crush all over again), but that usually goes away after a couple dates, or after a few beers. I also put a lot of effort into my relationships, not because I feel I need to, but because when I’m with the right person I want to.
I’m also looking for something serious, and do want to raise a family someday. That’s a little ways off, but I’m great with kids (as I’m still a kid at heart), and I can definitely picture settling down and being a dad someday, I just haven’t found my perfect match yet.
I wish I could describe the perfect girl for myself, but I really just don't know, as I haven’t found her yet. ;o) In the end I think it really comes down to chemistry and at least having a few things in common. I am looking for someone that loves to laugh, whether it's joking around with friends and each other, people watching at the beach, or just at me being ridiculous as usual. Trust is an important part of a relationship, it just takes a little time to build. Aside from that, I would like someone that is kind, respectful to others, physically active, some-what independent and ambitious, and if you own any puppies or kittens, bonus points. I should also mention that I cannot resist a contagious smile. :o)
I would like to meet someone to just have a blast with and share all the great experiences that San Diego has to offer. Even if that just involves us cuddling up and watching a movie at home with a couple glasses of wine.