How to describe myself in words? At work I'm driven, however outside of work I'm laid back and casual. I'm looking for someone to share the finer points of life with. Someone with a balance to life - work, family, faith, fun and friends - not necessarily in that order! Each need to be present and sometimes one takes precedence over the others. Physical attraction is important - but only a small part - when I'm old and wrinkly this won't be important at all! Friendship first and see what develops. I'm not very good at talking about myself in this context. I enjoy volunteering and trying to make a difference (big brothers, Habitat and working at my church).