I've been told many things about myself from a wide variety of people. Some would say that I'm a hard worker and "old" for my age. Others would describe me as warm, thoughtful, sweet and a romantic at heart. I love to laugh and spend time with those who truly matter to me. I love somebody who is witty and can take a joke. Laugh people, you live once! Through the hard times, I believe that a true friend tells you what you need to hear and no less. Depending on the person, I can be calm and cool or kinda loud and goofy but always respectful. The most important thing I seek in any relationship is honesty and trust. I'd rather you be honest with me than make up a lie to protect my feelings. I'm very athletic, love working out. I'm looking for somebody athletic, fun, smart, and confident in herself. I love good food, don't drink too often but when I do I enjoy myself. Movies, beach, art, music, doesn't matter. With the right person, any activity can be memorable. Perfect date....hmmm. I'm Italian/Irish so food and good drink always go well together! Maybe a walk on the beach at night. Have a thing for wine...no idea why just love it! Any relationship in my mind is built on trust. Each must trust each other. Must be able to laugh, life is far to short. I dislike people who are fake and pretend to be something else. I'm a good guy. Truly.