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52 year old man
Huntington Beach, California, United States

Seeking:
women 39-52
Within:
33 Miles of Huntington Beach, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Hi ladies. I’m a one girl at a time kinda guy and NOT a ‘cereal dater’. I have no idea what food has to do with dating - 'scuse me guys, this is a silly joke. After receiving some emails trying to correct my English I feel compelled to state that I actually know the different meanings of the words cereal/serial AND how to spell them - without using spellcheck. I do this for you, the hopefully patient reader, for you to get just a little glimpse of my wicked sense(not cents) of humor and thusly(too thick?) have a peek at my overwhelmingly charming personality... but I digress....
I’m a city boy who likes the country, a Southern California native without the So Cal attitude. I love to make people laugh and truly love pleasing a woman in every way ("wink"). I like to think I’m laid back and down to earth, (well, roughly 90% of the time, the other 10% I could be way out of this world (but in control), but only when the situation, opportunity, willingness and proper timing collide spontaneously... then I will step up), kind, honest, thoughtful, confident, courteous, considerate, loyal, strong, generous, unpretentious and fairly modest (which makes writing this a royal pain in the you know what... oh, and of course disregarding my corny opening and playful immodesty). My mom reminded me to say that I’m actually quite a good listener and communicate fairly well for a man. I'm also very proud to say that I was never unfaithful(20 year marriage). I'd LIKE to meet a smart, kind, independent, confident, loyal, considerate, equally unpretentious, honest, down to earth woman who looks like Cindy Crawford (remember kids, the emphasis was on LIKE - I'm not delusional)- but a man at the mid-century mark such as myself may have set his sights too high (DUH).
Call me sentimental but I believe deeply in a few things: Chivalry is not dead. Good manners should come naturally. The female must always "bleep" first AND finally, a successful relationship is obtainable if we both agree a woman is always right.... and that 99% of male/female relationships are in the end controlled by the lady, even though 50% of the males THINK they're in charge(which is a wonderful illusion that a lot of women have perfected. Bravo!)
Oh, and of course from the Kevin Costner line in the baseball movie "Bull Durham": I believe in "long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last three days", or at the least until we have to take the kids to school.
Thank you kindly for reading and I wish all of you good fortune. Namaste :o)

Btw, for any understandably skeptical women on here in my experience "Match" does work: I had a nice 2 year relationship and found love again with someone I met here following my divorce. If you're keeping score at home, that's two broken hearts endured by yours truly in the recent past... being a romantic is.... well, you know.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Had 3 Golden Retrievers since I was 18, one at a time, each living 10 years. I had 2 girls so we had to have cats too, went through about 6. Also had a couple horses, rabbits, a zillion fish, a snake, a pet rat. Basically I'd do anything for my kids.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Aries
College:
California State University, Long Beach, Long Beach, CA
For fun:

Quality time with my kids; day trips; cruising PCH; sunning at the beach; loud music; camping in the Sierras; fine dining; shopping for lingerie(hers silly); traveling; concerts/sports events; museums; quiet nights watching a movie(or not); spooning!

Favorite hot spots:

Wild/crazy bars and small/cozy coffee shops; San Francisco; Santa Barbara; San Diego; Hollywood; Chicago; Maui; Kauai; New York City; New England; Portland; Houston; Austin/6th Street; Lake Tahoe; Las Vegas; Sierras; Napa Valley; Mexico; Colorado

Favorite things:

My kids; smart women; lingerie(hers); mysteries; blue jeans; KROQ; Tommy Burgers; baseball; football; golf; snorkeling; golden retrievers; color green; beaches; seafood; laughter; fireplaces; wine; fast cars; sunsets; Americana; Anything Sweet

Last read:

An eye chart; Los Angeles Times; TIME Magazine; Sports Collectors Digest. Maxim(hey, I'm not dead yet)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I'm a Starter at Newport Beach Golf Course. I once had 2 retail sports businesses for 13 years. Some of my writing has been published. 1 year a while back I interviewed every Major League Baseball player for bios on the backs of their trading cards.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

I've been told I'm a mixture of English, Polish and Irish

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Raised Catholic but the Church quivers when I enter...

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Some college
No preference

Attended four colleges: Glendale Community, Los Angeles Trade Tech, Goldenwest, Cal State Long Beach (CSULB) - Go Dirtbags!

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