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52 year old man
Huntington Beach, California, United States

Seeking:
women 39-52
Within:
33 Miles of Huntington Beach, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Good day ladies,

Ps.(PRE-scipt) as of 9/30:
For a long time I wasn't a full-fledged paying "Match" Member and during that time could not read nor respond to emails or see who made me a "Favorite" or "Liked" my photos. Your emails are auto-deleted after 30 days. So, for anyone who may have thought I was ignoring you and being a weenie for not responding, please say hey again, K? I've paid my dues now and I'm ready to go(albeit a little rusty, nothing some WD-40 can't fix - funny visual if you think about it).

I’m a one woman at a time man and NOT a ‘cereal dater’. I have no idea what FOOD has to do with dating :o) WAIT-Timeout! 'Scuse me gals, this is just a joke. After receiving some emails trying to correct my English in my earlier drafts I felt compelled to state that I do know the difference of the words 'cereal/serial' AND how to spell them(without using spell-check, OMG). I do this for you, the patient reader, to get just a tiny peek at my playful sense(not cents) of humor and a tiny glimpse of my overwhelmingly charming personality. But I digress.

I’m a city boy who likes the country, a Southern California native without the So Cal attitude. I love to make people laugh and truly love pleasing a woman in every way(wink). I like to think I’m laid back and down to earth, kind, honest, thoughtful, confident, courteous, considerate, loyal, strong, generous, unpretentious, fairly modest (which makes writing this a royal pain in the you know what) and when called upon(at the appropriate time) can be a VERY good BAD BOY(yes I know, this is secretly sought by many of you).

My Mom used to remind me to mention that I’m actually quite a good listener and communicate fairly well- for a man. I'm also very proud to say that I was never unfaithful throughout my roughly 20 year marriage. I'm also aware that when ya'll state "I'm looking for a 'successful' man", that what you ladies are actually saying is: a man with a good amount of dough. Well, I'm not rich, but I believe that I AM highly successful based upon the fact that I was part of bringing four exceptional children into this world that I'm super proud of, and THAT, more than any amount of wealth or material crap obtained, is WAY more satisfying, gratifying and important to me than the size of a persons' bank account(can't wait to get some seething feedback for that shallow reference). But I digress, again. So where was I?

Oh, I'd LIKE to meet a smart, kind, independent, confident, loyal, considerate, equally unpretentious, honest, down to earth woman who looks like Cindy Crawford (remember kids, the emphasis was on LIKE - I'm not delusional), but now being just past the big "Five-0", I may have set my sights a little too high(DUH).
Call me sentimental but I believe deeply in a few things: Chivalry is not dead. Good manners should come naturally. Women must always "bleep" first AND finally, I believe a successful relationship is obtainable if we both agree that a woman is always right. I think 93% of male/female relationships are in the end controlled by the woman, even though way over 50% of men these days THINK they're in charge(which is a wonderful illusion that a lot of smart women have perfected. Bravo!)

Hopefully not boring you to sleep by now, a few more factoids about myself: I don't leave the seat up; I'm not a snorer nor a public burper or farter; I have no tats or piercings(yet); have never dyed my hair(on my head); have always believed a woman has the right to choose; I can sport a beard and longer hair(but then friends and family say I look like Jesus... or Kenny Loggins); I'm stating my true age and height; one of my favorite pastimes is going down... um, to the corner bakery; and I wear size 13 shoes.
And from the Kevin Costner line in "Bull Durham": I believe in "long, slow, deep, soft, wet kisses that last 3 days", or at least until we have to get up and go to work.

Thank you kindly for reading and I wish all of you good fortune. Namaste

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Baseball, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Golf, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Had 3 Golden Retrievers since I was 18, one at a time, each living 10 years. I had 2 girls so we had to have cats too, went through about 6. Also had a couple horses, rabbits, a zillion fish, a snake, a pet rat. Basically I'd do anything for my kids.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Aries
College:
California State University, Long Beach, Long Beach, CA
For fun:

Being with my kids; day trips; the beach; camping in the Sierras; snow; fine dining; shopping for lingerie(hers silly); massages; traveling; concerts/sports events; museums; swap meets; watching movies; intimate quiet(or loud :o) nights; spooning!

Favorite hot spots:

Hot Tubs; Wild/crazy bars; Small/cozy coffee shops; San Francisco; Lake Tahoe; Las Vegas; Sierras; Napa Valley; Mexico; Colorado Santa Barbara; San Diego; Hollywood; Chicago; Maui; Kauai; New York,NY; New England; Portland; Houston; Austin/6th Street

Favorite things:

My kids; smart women; work; lingerie(hers); mysteries; blue jeans; KROQ; Tommy Burgers; baseball; football; golf; snorkeling; golden retrievers; color green; beaches; seafood; laughter; fireplaces; wine; fast cars; sunsets; Americana; anything sweet!

Last read:

An eye chart; my grown children's intelligent blogs(of course I'm biased); The Los Angeles Times; TIME Magazine; Sports Collectors Digest; Americana Auction Catalogs; Maxim(hey, I'm not dead yet!)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 6'3" (190cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
No preference
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I'm a Starter at a Newport Beach Golf Course. I once had 2 retail sports businesses for 13 yrs. Some of my writing has been published. 1 year a while back I interviewed every Major League Baseball player for bios on the backs of their trading cards.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

I've been told I'm a mixture of English, Polish and Irish

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Raised Catholic but the Church quivers when I enter...

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Some college
No preference

Attended four colleges: Glendale Community, Los Angeles Trade Tech, Goldenwest, Cal State Long Beach (CSULB) - Go Dirtbags!

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