This online dating can be very overwhelming and very distracting. I have been on-line on and off for some time and still haven't found "the one". I would say I'm a very social and outgoing person. I have been single for quite some time so I guess I would say I'm comfortable with being alone but I would like to find that special someone that we both can add to each others live's. I'm looking for my soul-mate and will wait until I find her, I refuse to settle! This person will not just be my companion and lover but also my best friend. Trust and honesty have always been a strong part of my personality. A woman should be treated as such, give instead of receive, give a women the love and respect she deserves. I love all types of music, sports, art and theater. I must admit I have got sucked into some of this reality TV, I love The Amazing Race and Inspired by The Biggest Loser. About the woman Im looking for.....She must be very confident in herself. Has a great sense of humor and a passion for life. Loves to go out on the town and can also stay in and cuddle with a nice bottle of wine. Speaking of cuddling, she must be very affectionate and love to kiss. Non-smokers please. Sorry to sound shallow but looks are important. You must be physically attracted to the person to want to find out more about them, not that I think I'm all that because I don't but we must have that attraction. Slender/Athletic to Average body types only and I would say I have a weakness for more shorter/petite women. So if your 5'5 and under..better odds, lol but its not a must. So profiles with photo's only please or be able to e-mail some right away, its just being considerate to each other. Thank you for your interest and hope to hear from you soon.