I believe it's important to feel fulfiled in every area. You have to have a healthy balance in life because living on any extreme is the key to disappoinment.
I can say I'm blessed with an awesome family, one of the best jobs I have ever had, and peace of mind. I have a small set of friends down here as I originally came down to study about 3 years ago and decided to stay. My days have consisted of full time 9-5's, a couple hours of working out after work, and hanging out with a couple friends on weekends. My me time is usually Saturdays when I can get things done and see a friend or two. Sundays are usually church and family days.
I am an easy going guy, I dont require much to be happy. I enjoy having meaningful conversation but dont take things too seriously, gotta love laughter. I look for someone who will treat me as I do them..with respect and are supportive.