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43 year old woman
Sacramento, California, United States

Seeking:
men 40-48
Within:
50 Miles of Sacramento, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'0" (152cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

I recently returned to CA after moving out of state for a few years. My instincts tell me to not invest the time in writing an autobiography, but you never know it might end up on the bestseller list. I will get to the point (clue#1 into my personality) here is what attracts me:

A SENSE OF HUMOR (quick intelligent wit w/ the ability to keep up) is the most important quality for me. Let me clarify humor -not Three Stooges/Jim Carey ridiculousness. If you can follow The Big Bang Theory and agree with George Carlin and recognize Richard Pryor as a genius, we will get along splendidly. Add to your sense of humor a strong work ethic and a good relationship with your family, extra brownie points. I truly enjoy a great conversation and the occasional debate. In other words, bring your A game conversation skills.

My personality is very extrovert. I do not sit and watch others enjoy life. I am always seeking my next adventure (learning opportunity). I am loyal to a fault and make life-long friends. I am comfortable in jeans near a bonfire throwing a few back or dressed impeccably at a 5-star restaurant sipping a glass of wine (but I prefer casual and comfy). I ride a Harley. I am a LADY rider, not a biker chick. Huge difference. I have been told I can make friends with the wall and will argue with a fence post. Clue #2, I am returning from a Southern state and am thankful for being exposed to true hospitality and genuine warmth of a community. It does exist in this country.

I am comfortable in my own skin and I expect men to be too. I will not be impressed by your toys (I have my own) or the title on your business card (most are embellished). What will impress me is your treatment of strangers. Will you stop and help someone change a tire? Will you tip the single mom waitress? Do you see a person who needs a smile and kind words or just a lazy bum on the corner? Actions, not words impress. Character and integrity impress. My parents raised a self-sufficient daughter. I hope yours raised a kind-hearted, honest son.

I do not have any expectations for this site other than to meet a man who can appreciate the company of an educated and decisive woman and is willing to step out of his comfort zone every now. No Stage 5 Clingers (men are too!). I am not interested in fixing anyone or hearing all about what has gone wrong in one's life. I realize we all have had experiences that make us who we are, however if you are still living in the past then you have no chance of a future. I base my opinion of people on their actions and prefer the same courtesy. Negativity is not part of my make up. I enjoy laughter (look for it in ALL situations, especially the inappropriate ones) and seeing the good in humanity. I choose to approach life openly and directly. I say what I mean, mean what I say --but I don't have to say it mean. Don't waste my time and I promise not to waste yours. Not looking for "friends w/ benefits" nor am I looking for a ring either. Just be upfront with your intentions. If you are into quantity over quality please continue on your way. If you have unresolved past relationship issues, tell a counselor because I will not be sympathetic. Man up and move on. If you don't know what you want, I know I don't want to be contacted. Not into games. Simply being direct, not rude.

If you cannot formulate a cohesive sentence absent misspellings and/or Ebonics, spare me your message. I read English, not text-speak (unless I am actually on my cell texting) or hieroglyphics. If you cannot use their, there, they're; your, you're or to, too, and two in proper context -- don't wink because I will want to poke you in the eye. ;-)

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Aerobics, Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Football, Dancing, Skiing, Soccer, Weights / Machines, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
University of California, Davis, Davis, CA
For fun:

I am a true adrenaline junkie and enjoy anything involving speed and heights. The bike in my pictures is MINE. I like "doing" things not watching on the sidelines. Speaking of sidelines -- sporting events are always a welcomed treat.

Favorite hot spots:

I was raised in the Bay Area and am drawn to the Coast. I love the outdoors and my favorite plan is a full tank of gas, a map and NO plan. I love long drives that lead to an unexpected "find." I have an extensive travel background - passport ready.

Favorite things:

Live music, cold beer, good wine, bonfires, open roads, great comedians, tailored suits (on me), thunderstorms, Southern sunsets, the ocean, roller coasters, political debates, farmers markets, and hearing anyone's genuine laughter.

Last read:

I gravitate towards factual literary works that will be helpful on Jeopardy! I am an avid reader and always have a book with me.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'0" (152cms)
5'11" (180cms) to 6'4" (193cms)
Body type:
About average
About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Green
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military
No preference

Don't lie, I am paid to gather facts.

Income:
$75,001 to $100,000
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

I am very proud to be 100% Italian. Not Jersey Shore or Mobwives Italian either! Knowing my family history has been an anchor my entire life. I speak Italian and have been to Italy many times. Respectful pride.

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

My Faith made me who I am. Religion is a choice and I choose to participate. But I don't judge those that do not. Golden Rule works just fine too.

Languages:
English, Italian
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree

I have my degree in Criminal Justice and minored in Journalism.

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