Must be fun loving and affectionate. I value honesty and I like someone has a great sense of humor who likes to hang out sometimes but is okay being alone too. Someone who takes care of his body and enjoys outdoor activity. I do not smoke so he shouldn't either (thats a deal breaker). It would help if we have some of the same interests.. working out, travel, the arts, good food, books etc... My friends would descirbe me as warm but shy, great sense of humor and an independent spirit... I'm looking for the yin to my yang.