I have just returned home to the Bflo area. Finally !!! I have spent a number of the last years paying my dues to success. Now that I'm home I find it easy to meet a lot of great women, its just that their all married, crazy, engaged, crazy, seriously dating someone...or crazy.
So I'm looking to start a LTR with a great woman. I'll start by making you a few promises; I promise to treat you better then any man ever has. You have no reason to believe that now but let me prove it to you. We'll become the best of friends. I promise the sex will be great and frequent. I absolutly promise to show you romance that even Hollywood producers could not imagine. I'm 100% faithfull and dont even understand how someone could cheat.
I served as an officer in the Army so honor, duty and committment are clearly a part of me. My life is fairly calm at this point. So I really dont need an adrenaline junkie or a "WHOO" girl. I'm done with loud bars and much prefer drinks with friends or an elegant dinner for two. You should know I'm totally clean cut and could make Clark Kent look like a dirt bag. I do enjoy alcohol though, beer and wine can be great. I wont lie to a woman. I would rather get in trouble for telling her the truth, then to have her ever wonder if I'm lying. So ladies, your one of those foolish girls that goes for "Bad Boys" and then wonders why all your relationships fail...just keep walking.
Ahhh, but there is a catch to this offer. You must be willing to give your very best in return. I have learned the hard way that too many women were willing to recieve all I can offer but really didnt feel much like doing anything extra or special in return. If your not ready for a relationship...don't respond. If your still in love with an old b.f. , just looking for fun, married, going through a divorse or hung up on some guy, or crazy...don't respond.
So what am I looking for? An intelligent woman for starters, smart is sexy! Passion, affecton, and sexuality are a must !
I need a woman that can take a joke and give one right back. I'm very sarcastic and I will poke fun at you. I've done amature stand up comedy twice and except for the people that threw rotton eggs, most people think I'm kinda funny.
My match should be confident about herself. I'm not concerned with what she does for a living, because a job is a source of income, it's not who you are.
Its totally fine if you have children. Actually, it's great. I fully believe it's God's plan for me to raise another man's children. I am 100% certain that I could love another man's children every single bit as much as if they were my own.
Her education level is not important. I have met many people with masters/doctors degrees that were dummies.
You must have time for a relationship. I don't expect you to change your life but if you need a 3 month calander to see when you can fit me in, then forget it.
I need someone who has their life together, not bouncing between jobs, guys, places to live, etc.
She should have poise and class. Remember ladies, no man will ever treat you with dignity and respect if you degrade yourself with your actions and do not show yourself any respect.
Finally, it would be great to find a woman that likes to do the special little "nothings" for her guy.