44yo, White, 5'11", under 200 lbs and slowly dropping. I've become serious about my health. Thinner now than in my pictures. Bald on top, Glasses. I'm big into the Steampunk community which explains my funky mustache/chops. I like attending steampunk conventions and other cosplay kind of things when I can. It's something I very much enjoy, but it's not ALL I am. I'm a geek. I like crafting stuff and getting creative. I love cooking and like to think I'm pretty good at it. Not much into sports but enjoy a live game occasionally. I have 4 kids. My oldest is moving out very soon. 9 yo boy, 7 yo girl, 3 yo girl. Very precious to me. If kids turn you off, take a hike. I have a good solid job. i.e. I'm stable. I'm most definitely not mainstream. I don't much like most pop culture.
I'm looking for someone who shares my interests and wants to enjoy life. Can't be too serious. Gotta be willing to laugh at yourself. Willing to be silly, do spontaneous things. If I suggest something odd or different, you gotta be the kind to say "You're crazy! Let's do it!" Can't be shy. I need some positivity in my life. Don't bring me down. Don't hold grudges. Don't complain about other people. Don't be fake or two faced. Don't be vain. Too much make up or obsession with fashion or materialism is a turn off. Don't care much about ethnicity, or hair color or style or eyes. I AM looking for someone who is interested in their health. i.e. not overweight. Though a physical relationship is part of what I'm looking for, please don't interpret that as I'm just looking for sex. Just let it develop naturally. I'm here to have some fun and enjoy life with someone.