The right man has many layers, but keeps it simple. I do not have an ideal design for the right man because only God knows exactly who he is. I do know what I value. I value humor, confidence, stability, physical appeal and spirituality. Kids are fine IF you have a healthy realtionship with the mother. I am drama-free and want to keep it that way. If your friends and family respect you and look to you for advice and words of wisdom, that says a lot for your character. Romance???? Love it! I am creative.....so hang on!!!