I've been on Match for a little over a month now and I must say the experience has been less than impressive. So, I thought I'd change my approach a little bit.
Who I'm looking for: I am looking for a smart, attractive, well established man. He should have a sense of humor and a zest for life. If you're over 40 and your idea of a good time is kicking back at a hole in the wall with your buddies and a beer, the. I'm sorry but I'm not interested. I don't mind being at home sometimes, but I get restless. I like to be out! Not clubbing, but lounges, music, and dinners. I'm not your average 30 something girl. I feel, look, and sometimes act a little more youthful. So that brings me to the physical stuff. Let's be real! Physical attraction is a big deal. I don't want to come off as superficial, but looks are important to me. I LOOK LIKE MY PICTURES! As such, I would like someone that compliments me in that area. I don't want a May-December romance or anything that gives that appearance. Look young, dress young, feel young, and live young! Those are attractive qualities to me. There is nothing wrong with being an adult who takes care of their business and still having a youthful spirit. I like all types of music. I like to attend offbeat events. And I like to be introduced to new places and new things.
I've met a couple of really strange guys on here and one nice guy that I just did not feel attracted to. One got mad because he texted me at midnight and ashen I didn't respond, he asked me to delete his number. Done! The next guy I met face to face kinda looked like his pics but he had some mannerisms that that were extremely awkward. The last guy I met face to face again kinda looked like his pics, and was nice but had a tooth thing that I just couldn't get passed. That being said, just a side note: If you have to ask if you like your pictures, then you already know you don't. Look, I don't need Prince Charming. But I want to feel something when I look at the person I'm with. I want to have to resist the temptation to kiss him when we first meet. And I want that feeling to last and to build into something deeper. I want a friend that I can be open and honest with. He should be able to make me laugh. He should be intelligent enough to hold deep and meaningful conversations but relaxed enough to have a conversation about random silliness. Career driven and ambitious is also very attractive. After all, power is sexy. For some reason I have an affinity for engineers although I wouldn't limit myself to any one profession. The reality is I have a career that love. I own my own home and I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me but I'm also not trying to take care of anyone. Hopefully we can come to the table pretty close to equal.
Now I've given you tons of information. So if your still reading, you either think I'm crazy or you're interested. If it is the latter, feel free to drop me a line. I look forward to hearing from you. XOXO
