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46 year old man
Los Angeles, California, United States

Seeking:
women 34-56
Within:
31 Miles of Los Angeles, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

It seems too many men and women dating online are slipping into the phenomenon of "shopping" for what they ideally would want (or what society tells us we should ideally want, even though it's often not actually true) vs focusing on connecting with a wider range of potentials they could be happy with if they just met and could take in the whole person.

People also get trapped in the pattern of contacting people they find attractive or fit certain criteria, but unless the other person also finds you attractive and fit his/her criteria, then there's no chance at all.. Example: Women, who are 100%-only white, highly attractive, slim and under 40, with no kids but wants and is biologically self-capable of kids and has a BA degree or higher. For thousands, actually millions of men, there are guaranteed thousands and millions of women who do NOT fit that unbelievably-narrow search criteria, but if they actually MET them, meaning women OUTSIDE the narrow criteria, then they'd probably be very interested in them, along with finding love, happiness, marriage, the physical, mental and emotional--all of it! The problem is: They're cutting themselves out, as well as cutting the women out who could honestly love them by pushing STUPID buttons! WOMEN DO IT, TOO!! (e.g. taller and wealthier). And it's all due to the dehumanizing "search criteria". Worse: there's no way to communicate, describe or learn about character, personality and the really important things about someone--in an online profile!

I often wonder why more women don't initiate messaging men? What do they do? Wind up ONLY dating among the guys that contact them first? Or the guys that contact persistently? OK, then how are you supposed to meet the guys YOU like (are interested in) vs only the guys that like (are interested in) you? I'm saying this not just for me, but for a lot of men. Stop being inhibited about contacting guys, or at least don't be O-N-L-I-N-E ! Same as in any other situation, you can always ignore a guy you emailed or gave your number to later if it doesn't work out, right? Let's use me as an example: I'm available. I've got a job. I went to UCLA. I can talk about anything. I'm caring, sincere, loyal and am genuinely ready for a real relationship, including marriage. I'm totally baffled by this issue. Think of it this way: When you email, text or call a guy, it INSTANTLY puts you in front of all other women he might be interested in -or- trying to get his interest. Repeat: Instant front of the line pass!! And for everyone who was blessed with what our culture calls "good looks" and/or (egoicly) says, "I don't contact or call guys..." Hmm... and you wonder why you don't meet enough great guys?!? It's because: 1) You're constantly DISTRACTED by men pursuing you, many of whom secretly see you as objectified beauty for another conquest, yet o' how they pour on the charm and empty promises to get you to date and sleep with them, then show their real not-so-good-at-all colors later and/or 2) You think that with so many guys pursuing you, that surely one of them will be a good candidate. Q: Did anyone here take critical thinking? A: It's not true. It's a total non-sequitur, i.e., that reasoning does not follow! (INTERNALLY you know this).

ABOUT ME: I am emotionally available. I STRONGLY BELIEVE 5 to 10 minutes in person is infinitely better than 5 to 10 hours of emails or any number of telephone conversations. FACT: OVER 80% of human communication is done non-verbally. We all know people who are brilliant writers and great on the phone, so the focus should be an email, a phone call or two and setting up a day and time to MEET. No matter what, any first meeting is always going to feel like a blind date. I work 9am to 4pm Monday - Saturday, yet can take half-day offs any time. So, I do have time to meet and dating is a PRIORITY to me. If it's also a PRIORITY for you--let me know in any way you can. A short note to start generally works best. Thanks : )

Interests:
Alumni connections, Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Business networking, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Aries
College:
University of California, Los Angeles, Los Angeles, CA
For fun:

When I have free time or can figure out ways to create free time, I enjoy biking, walking in the sand, and meals that I couldn't cook or make for myself. Honestly, I'm not difficult to please. Alone or with someone I like, any activity can be fun!

Favorite hot spots:

I "memorized my passport number" 27 yrs ago and have travelled extensively. However, if you're the type who requires a man "MUST LOVE travel", then I doubt we'd be a match. Sure, I LOVE travelling, but not when MUST is a euphemism for MUST BE RICH.

Favorite things:

I am grateful to be alive, in good health and to have persevered in rebuilding my life after a heartbreak, a house fire, then a depression that ensued afterwards as everything was unraveling. It's nice to know I am the same guy with or without stuff.

Last read:

Books on broadcast journalism and news writing: career categories I've been told all my life I could do well in. I often read Nation of Change, Truth Out and other online stuff. Currently: Red Flags of Love Fraud - 10 Signs You're Dating a Sociopath.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'10" (177cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark brown
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

What's important isn't a degree, status or level of income -- it's feeling like you're equals. That can only be established in person.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian, Other

My ancestors have ALL been US Citizens from 140 years (Late 1800's) minimum to 237 years (1776/Independence from England). They (English from England, Swedish from Sweden, German from Germany, Dutch from Holland, Etc.) all came here l-e-g-a-l-l-y.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Brands of religion I count as influences and studied are Judaism (Reform/Progressive), Christianity, Buddhism (Meditation, Thought), Self Help and Ordinary Life. Think of me as culturally 100% American, and a Jew who is Spiritual but not Religious.

Languages:
English, Hebrew
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

I have a Bachelors from UCLA, two Associates from College of Marin in Northern California and a lot of life experience. In all work I've done, I always turned it into something far more fulfilling and meaningful than anyone ever expected it could be.

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