My perfect match will be someone who is attractive on all levels, and to whom I am attractive on all levels. There should be physical attraction and compatibility, of course, but he should also have an open and fun sense of humor, an open mind to all sort of ideas, and a strong sense of intellect - that doesn't mean he has to be brilliant or formally educated; just able to discuss things on deeper levels. Maturity and emotional stability are important, but maintaining a child-like wonder about the world and life is also a good thing. I love the idea of romance and of being committed to each other, with the ultimate goal of finding a lifelong connection. That's how a guy gets to be the TOP of my list. :)