I am not currentlysubscribed s0 i cant read emails. All i can see are winks.
PLEASE..NO currently "separated" statuses or men that look like zztop, mountain-man Joe, chester molester, little wayne, McHammer EazyE or Alexander O'Neal. If you look like your picture is a mug shot-I'm probably going to be scared..I don't care to keep up with a guy that still dresses like he's in high school and types in slang or all caps..
You laugh, I know, but I'm so serious!!
I am an old-skool mom. have 2 girls 10-18. I am looking forward to adult time. If you have kids that's great! If you answered "want kids definitly" you should know that I'm a great step-parent but I'm not at a place in my life where I want babies of my own. I understand we are not all at the same place in our lives.
Chemistry and conversation are musts. Don't be alarmed when I talk to you like I have known you for years. That's just how I am and I'm looking for someone that can do the same. I'm funny, (in my opinion) I'm sweet. I will listen, I love hard. I will tell you what I think. I have a brain, and I'm not afraid to use it...
I'm very down to earth, loveable, and I guess quirky..
I love to talk, read, write, travel, taste new foods, enjoy the moment, and be outside. I'm thankful for the experiences in my life that have made me who I am. I love my family, I love my diversity, and I love people in general but I have a low tolerance for petty ugliness. I'm pretty well rounded but far from perfect.
I'm sexy in a sweat shirt or I can dress to the nines and stand by your side. ..I'm not afraid to get my hands dirty and do a little work. My all male office seems to be impressed with my ability to morph into Girlyness at will.. I spent 11 years in the Army and I'm comfortable in heels or chucks.
I mostly listen to Neo Soul, RB and Alternative, but I love music in general and will listen to "almost" anything.
I can be very goofy but those who know me love this about me, I want you to laugh and enjoy yourself around me.
I'm independent, not clingy however, I am very affectionate and don't mind a little P.D.A. at the right moment.
YOU: Every girl want's to find a guy that fits her personality and loves the real her. I'm about quality, not quantity.We will hit it off if the first conversation feels like we have known each other for years. There is nothing more attractive than a mature, well traveled, educated man with goals, a kind heart, loving arms, and can admit when he has made a poor choice or be real and tell you tell you when you are about to make a mistake. Respect for other peoples cultures is a must.
If you are articulate, have a sense of humor, imagination, and variety we are sure to have a good starting point. Men who read are very attractive..
Please have a great heart, let out your inner big kid, and rememember that romance and foreplay are very necessary.
Just a quick tip- I see a ton of profiles from men that look like they either don't want to be here or just don't care to present an honest view of who they are. There are photos of dogs, vacations, halloween costumes, sketchy backgrounds, and sunglasses- but rarely clear, close headshots that give a real picture of the person they represent. Or, you have so little to say that it doesn't matter how you look. We're here to avoid the pit-falls of best friend hook-ups and blind-dates right?. Some of you might oughta reconsider your profile names.... Stuff like "venom" doesn't really sit well with the ladies yanno? Then again, I'm not looking at chicks profiles but maybe there are some women out there that fall into that category. I'm not that chick..J.S.
Good luck in your search..!