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49 year old man
Matthews, North Carolina, United States

Seeking:
women 35-50
Within:
20 Miles of Matthews, North Carolina, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Stocky
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Self description and self deception are probably one and the same, so I'm probably a middle class idiot who thinks he's .....cool.

I have made some realizations since joining Match. The fact that I find so much in life funny, sometimes supersedes my thoughts and feelings on what is of real importance. In addition to some one to care about, I want a family, but I think at my age bringing a child into the world is not a great idea. I think it is of utmost importance that you know this; I will never scare you, hurt you or harm you but will protect you and family till my last breath. There are too many wolves out there waiting to find some one to manipulate. I don't wear the sheep's clothing.

Born and raised in the south by Catholics. It's kind of like being a blue eyed , blonde haired, black , Japanese girl. There just weren't a lot of us around. I've spent my life in North and South Carolina. It is home. I have a little family scattered between the mountains and the beach. Still have both parents. I have no kids so I refer to them as my 75 year olds.

I am fortunate in the fact my family bought my house at the beach as a second home so now I can go home to the beach at my leisure.

I am interested in meeting someone who is first of all just my best friend. I'm not looking to compete with the Jones's. I like to travel and take day trips to mountains, beach, Charleston. ect. The Carolinas are my home and love to travel all over them and beyond when I can. If we hit it off, you may just have friend for a long time to come ,even if we don't find the everlasting thing. ....although the everlasting thing will be it ,when I find her. In the mean time if you like to cook or actually be cooked for, enjoy maybe a bike ride or walking the dogs downtown, digging around in the yard or under the hood of a car, an impromptu trip to the beach with nothing more than it occurring to you at 5:15 and leaving at 5:18. That is me.

. I used to be in the beer and wine business, so if you are that chick that likes to come over and get hammered ALL the time, I'm just really not interested. Don't get me wrong I WILL have a drink, but not day after day after day.

I don't want to spend an endless untold hours exchanging email after email on a litany of subjects.There is no BS here. If we are interested lets grab lunch or coffee or just just meet somewhere. It's not rocket science. Unless you work for NASA and then ,well, it is.

Life is simple. Don't make it complicated.

I am a firm believer in finding the humor in any situation.

PS, If you are one of these people from overseas who keep sending IM. I really don't want to buy anyone or bring
you to the US, but thank you just the same...lol

It is easy to get discouraged but even a babystep is a step. Love your parents, teach you kids and pet your dog.....It's that simple

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Exploring new areas, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Cats, Dogs
Pet Essay:

I have a Husky and a German Shepard and their black cat named....the cat

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I love to cook , having spent a great deal of time in the restuarant bus.I tinker with houses, cars and bikes. Bottom line is I don't keep up with sports and love most anything I can ride, drive, eat or bang on with a hammer

Favorite hot spots:

Favorite places I'm really diggin my recliner lately. I spent the past decade on the road in NC and SC., so on a day off I really like plundering around Charlotte.

Favorite things:

I like old 70s and 80s music, Read a lot of John Grisham and watch 2 1/2 men Big Bang. Not much into watching sports on TV

Last read:

The internet and I am nearly finished

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'8" (172cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'7" (170cms)
Body type:
Stocky
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Yes, but trying to quit
No preference
Drink:
Social Drinker
Moderately
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

Im in outside sales mainly dealing with grocery industry

Income:
$50,001 to $75,000
$35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
Yes, and they sometimes live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other

Im a white dude

Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Christian / Catholic, Christian / LDS, Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other

Recovering Catholic

Languages:
English
English
Education:
I'll tell you later
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree

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