HI!! This is my second time trying this site out, met what i thought was a great guy but I was wrong and things didn't work out I guess, so here I am again :)
I like the outdoors, sitting by a fire going for a hike or swimming. I like to read, mysteries mostly, agatha christie and stephen king are at the top of my list. I like to hang out and chat, over coffee or a drink.
I am a single mom who works over 40 hours a week so my time is valuable and I would really rather not waste it on people who lie or love drama. I'm very upfront and I would like to find the same, I cant stand games and I feel that if you like someone you should tell them and if you dont you should tell them as well. Life is short and their are no guarantees so its best to do today what can be done, leave the past where it belongs after learning your lesson and move towards the future with hope.
I am getting out of a very bad marriage where my ex cheated on me and lied constantly so if you are married and reading this, you can move on, I would never make anyone else feel the way that I did.
I'm kinda tall and not little, Im not an amazon or anything but I'm not going to be gracing the cover of magazines anytime soon. I realized a long time ago that if my body was all I had to worry about then I'm not doing too bad lol
To bottom line things here, I'm not 20 and naive anymore, I passed thirty a few years back and definitely had to learn some lessons over those years so I am facing meeting new people with hope and understanding but also with open eyes and a guarded heart. I beg you please don't waste my time if you are still in love with your ex or you dont know what you want out of life. Im not here to raise anyone, I have two boys of my own and that's enough.
My priorities are simple, first and foremost are my children, second is my job and third is me so if you are the type that needs me to chase you or hang on your every word then you too can move on, I dont have time for that.
I want someone who is strong, kind, honest, intelligent, funny and understanding, someone who has his own friends to hang out with but can still make time for me, someone who knows what they have in me, appreciates it and doesn't throw it away by taking me for granted.
If you have made it thru this very lengthy profile and still want to msg me then I encourage you to do so, again I work and Im a mom so if i dont get right back to you please dont take it personally. Also I am a free member and i dont have the same privileges as some do.
Whether I am what you are looking for or not I wish you all the very best of luck on here :)