Who am I? I am a busy woman working 2 jobs and volunteering. Secure in who I am and where I am going in life. I am ok going it alone but sometimes company along the way is nice. Looking for someone secure in who they are as a person in their life and unafraid of challenges in life and relationships.
Being able to share my faith is very important to me. I could not have a relationship with someone who did not share my faith.
I don't like drama or complicated, I prefer honesty and being upfront and direct. I believe you can only get your feelings hurt if you have unrealistic expectations which can be avoided when you are truely open and honest.
Not here to "hook up" as my daughter has warned me many are here for that, if that's what you are looking for keep looking. I am a real person that shoots straight all the time, no games, no lies, no BS.
I am not the normal girl, I change my own oil on my own Harley, I can Hang cabinets with the best of them, Nearly every piece of furniture in my house I finished or refinished myself. I am an amazing cook but have no one to cook for anymore except my girlfriends for which I do cook for every other week.
I have a real hard time sitting still, I like to be fully engaged in all I do physically mentally. I have my favorite jeans, 80's rock roll and not afraid to get dirty but I also love my gowns and heels, pedicures manicures candlelight and soft jazz playing in the background. I Love the ballet theatre but I also love hiking canoeing. I look and act much younger than my years. I am highly competative but know how to lose gracefully.
In twenty years other than at my kids I have raised my voice 4 times at someone and only had 2 arguements to speak of. Diplomacy and communication are so doable if you give it a shot but you have to talk to communicate.
I really enjoy having comprehensive conversations with those who can express themselves intelligently. Happpy comes from without but joy comes from within. Most importantly I know the difference between need and want.