That's right...I have fallen into the group of on-line daters that are not finding what they're looking for. At any rate, it looks like due to Match.com's policy of charging you without prior warning, my profile will stay on for a while (probably until October). If you're bored and want to chat, by all means, write...as I've said before, I'm friendly, have no serious hang-ups, and certainly will always be open to making new friends, even if a relationship doesn't develop; I tend to value people for their individual worth.
By the way, I'm still 38 not 39, and still, have no game :-p. Still love to read books a lot, mainly works of fiction that I can learn things from, eating out, exploring, horseback riding, engaging conversations, and I'm STILL frustrated by the dating scene in South Florida. It's like people say they value certain things, but when you get to know them...don't think they're being honest with themselves. And since I could care less at this point to meet someone on here, I can be bluntly honest :-D.
Truly wish everyone the very best, and may you find what you truly deserve.