Originally from California. Went to Northwestern and studied film, so was able to also enjoy Chicago, good midwest sensibilities, and snow. I'm the director on a non-profit educational travel program, putting together high-end trips for people to see the world and learn along the way. Some of my favorite places include Nepal and Cuba. I am happy to be traveling less than in years past, and enjoy my home and community and connecting with those I love.
You? Looking for a relationship over dating. I love confidence, but not arrogance. The ability to play, and also be serious when needed. Humor is important and you have to get mine. You are smart, funny, kind, curious, smart (yes I said that twice), a good friend, a good lover, and wake up happy most days. You are engaged in the world and what happens to it. You want a kind and loving woman, who also can make you laugh. You ideally want to live with someone you love and like the idea of having a great home, one that other people want to come to because it's a fun and warm place to be. You like dinner parties. You are looking for a love relationship that eventually involves monogamy. Beyond the philosophical discussions, I am not interested in an open relationship or polyamory. You have a passport and have traveled off this continent. You look for opportunities for spiritual, creative, or intellectual growth. You want to share some of that with a partner. You are not Republican or a conservative Christian. Music matters to you. If you've gone to Burning Man, the art and creativity and freedom, is what turned you on most. You like futbol over football. (okay, okay, some of these are completely negotiable, but soccer IS the most beautiful game. Like me, you appreciate the the passions of life and the zen. You really want a smart, funny, loyal, playful, compassionate, competent, woman. (I'd say pretty and sexy, but seems sort of silly to say, since that's really your call.)
