I’m an ambitious east coast gentleman mellowed out by a decade in California. The complements I hear female friends send my way -- smart, kind, a good communicator, great with people, handsome, cool and stylish. I live a pretty healthy lifestyle -- yoga, meditation and a solid dose of buddhist philosophy, but i also like to get out to interesting restaurants (mad yelp skills btw) and an occasional concert or museum. I’m told i can light up a room, but I also really value my downtime -- meeting for coffee, taking risks in the kitchen, hanging in a park with a good book or once in awhile giving into that big electronic box in the living room. I own a small software startup so work pretty hard, but I do look forward to putting it on the shelf to unwind and spend time with good friends. Great design turns me on, but i'm not a big collector of things. I'm more about people, experiences and great conversation. I'm well-educated, intellectually curious and also pretty spiritual, so there are very few things i'm uncomfortable talking about. That said, I've learned to appreciate silence and the unspoken.. Looking for a like-minded partner in crime.