I am a father of 4, super shy and kind of anti-social. I don't go to bars or clubs, I can't dance. Cooking is a passion of mine but only for others. When left to feed myself, I resort to fast food or the microwave. After being married for 18 out of the last 20 years, I really don't know what I am looking for in a woman, only that I will know when I find it.