Those that have life figured out are those that understand that life is about servitude....serve others with selflessness, and others will return the favor and not only meet your needs but fulfill your desires. We cannot exist in happiness and success without the involvement of others. I'm looking for someone with whom to enjoy a movie with, go out for a live concert with, take a cooking class with, organize a food drive with, or just spend a quiet afternoon on an exotic beach or at home lounging on the patio with a good latte. I know that a man with $100 to his name, but the undeniable love of his family and friends, is more successful than a man with millions of dollars and no love! Are you the one who puts happiness first?