My "likes" are simple. Funny, smells good, good kisser, in no particular order. No lying, no yelling, no cheating. Everything else can be discussed;)
I appreciate smart, easy going, and motivated. Taking it slow is key.
I have realistic expectations for all my encounters, because genuine sincerity and a true desire to get to know another person is not something that will happen after just one outing, and not everyone you meet is meant for you. Keeping a positive outlook that all experiences have something to offer is the best approach.