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34 year old man
Studio City, California, United States

Seeking:
women 24-32
Within:
501 Miles of Studio City, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
Asian, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I have a simple view of love and relationships. A good relationship should be like a stress relieving medication and a life ‘enhancing’ experience. It should come in really handy when the pace of life gets too busy and can help keep things in perspective. It should also make my life better and more interesting than if I were single… If it doesn’t achieve that, what’s the point?

In my adult life I’ve learned a lot about what I want in a woman and have found that there are four “simple” things I need from my next girlfriend.

#1... Obviously, I need to be physically attracted to her. There isn't much of a long term future if there isn't some sort of serious physical attraction. However, I’ve found that good looks don’t help too much when the relationship isn’t good :-p

#2... She needs to be able to "put up with me". My personality can be "too much" for some people and that's fine. I just expect that any long term relationship would require a high level of personality compatibility. I'm not very good at customizing my personality for certain people so either you love it.. or you hate it!

#3.... She MUST be happy. We live in an imperfect world and we all deal with high amounts of stress but I need a woman who embraces the stress and loves life. I want to be with someone that values the great opportunities that life provides and is anxious and happy to experience its offerings. I'm not always in the best mood but my passion for life is always strong and optimistic.

#4... She can't be crazy. This should be self-explanatory but I must say it... I can't handle crazy. Craziness gives birth to passion but I don't need that kind of passion!

And there it is... my four simple requirements! If you satisfy these requirements and think you could handle coffee or lunch with me, feel free to send me a message and I'll be happy to pay for your lunch or dinner ;-)

For the purposes of full transparency, I will lay out four of my random "flaws" so you can cross reference them with your own personal checklist. ;-)
Flaw #1 - I'd rather be single than to put up with the "hard work"... I've heard many couples say "a great relationship requires alot of hard work". I don't buy it! I still believe it is possible to be with someone where there isn't tons of "work". I can handle disagreements and some fighting but I have no tolerance for "work" in a relationship. Sure, things don't always align and compromises need to be made, but that's with everything. When I think work, I think of frustration and stress and anxiety. If a relationship has alot of that... Give me singlehood any day!
Flaw #2 - I don't take life or myself too seriously. Yes, I can be serious... but usually, I'm not. I love to joke around and a second doesn't pass without me thinking of some sort of sarcastic comment. Trust me, in proofreading my own 'match' profile, I probably called myself a 'douchebag loser' at least 50x!...
Flaw #3 - I'm very opinionated. I'm a lover or hater of all things. Indifference is not my cup of tea. I don't expect you to agree with my opinions but trust me.. you'll hear them!
Flaw #4 - When it comes to relationships... I'm different. A relationship is a BIG deal. I treat it as such. When I look around at my peers that are married or engaged I ask... did they just settle or am I just not "lucky" enough to have met the "right person"? I think it's a combination of both. For me, I'd never settle and I'm probably not too lucky either. It's a hopeless combination yet I'm still hopeful. The way I look at it-- Either I'll be happy in a relationship... or I'll be happy single... No matter what though, I WILL be happy ;-)

Flaw #5 - I use emoticons and wink randomly in sentences because I think it's charming and is the only suitable way to summarize certain emotions.... That's how i roll :-p

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Playing sports, Political interests, Religion/Spiritual, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Basketball, Billiards / Pool, Football, Golf, Skiing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

Isn't that what the girlfriend is for? haha j/k

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
Aquarius
College:
University of California, Berkeley, Berkeley, CA
For fun:

There is so much to do in LA so I like to take advantage by trying new and fun things when they pop up. Most weekends, I enjoy getting out and enjoying the weather, shopping and watching sports. As long as it's fun... I'm down to check it out.

Favorite hot spots:

In the summer I love being near the beach (Hermosa, Santa Monica, Newport) or a fun place to party (Vegas, Scottsdale, Miami). In the winter, I like heading to the snow at least once a month. On an average weekend night I'm probably in Hollywood.

Favorite things:

My favorite activity is eating good food, having a nice drink and being around fun and interesting people that can make great conversation. I don't watch alot of TV but I always have The Office, Family Guy and Jersey Shore (regrettably!) on my DVR.

Last read:

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I "think" it's working....

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Sales / Marketing
No preference

I do pharmaceutifcal sales but my true passion is in being an entrepreneur. My goal is to make the most amount of money in as little time as possible. Money is very important but I'm more interested in the LIFE than the STYLE in lifestyle.

Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Not sure
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Asian, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
No preference

I'm half Asian (Filipino) and half French (my Dad is a white guy). I'm what they call a "Navy baby"... ;-) -- If you have yet to experience this amazing hybrid I suggest you contact me immediately!

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Agnostic, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other
Languages:
English, Spanish
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
High school, Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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