When I realized that I'm a different person in different situations in life, I stopped the "self-search". The only search that is still going is for that special someone, a long life friend (in a male form)
I can list the qualities that attract me...clean, funny, intelligent is a must, easy on the eyes would be a bonus, confident but not cocky, generous and loyal, giving and caring, ambitious, supportive and respectful....in other words I'm looking for a batman :)
Life is too short anyway. I'd like to maximize my life with positive experiences and fill it with REAL people. Be yourself, that's all I really ask.