Let me try this again...I think I may have been somewhat vague the first go around. I am the kind of person who knows exactly what she wants and if I don't find it...I will stay single. I have never been that girl that needed someone to make her happy. I have decided in the last several months to reinvent myself physically and mentally. This is a journey that I am on and I would love to have someone to share it with if possible.
I am a single mother of an incredibly intelligent 6 year old daughter who definitely challenges me every day and keeps me on my toes. We are a package deal and there isn't a lot of wiggle room with that. My goal is to find someone who loves her MORE than they could love me. But with that being said...I'm not here looking for a father for her bc if I must say...I'm pretty freaking awesome doing it on my own.
I work in advertising so naturally my job is quite stressful but its a welcoming stress. I love working on deadlines and selling to the wire and being pushed to the limit. It's exciting and no two days are the same. I do work hard but I can play hard too! Honestly, I am pretty easy...it doesn't take a lot of make me happy or keep me occupied. I can find the light in any situation. I read a lot...and I read EVERYTHING! Sometimes its nice to escape my own reality.
So what am I looking for? Yeah this part I was obviously not clear on when I first made this profile. I am online because frankly I am not interested in going to a bar to meet a guy because that just really isn't the kind of thing I want to do and I do not have a lot of time to do much else. With that being said...I am looking for something way more than the physical part of a relationship. If that's what you're wanting...I am not your girl.
I am a very open person and I tend to wear all of my feelings on my sleeve, which can be good b/c you don't have to spend all your time trying to figure out what I am thinking. I speak my mind and I have opinions. Some are very strong opinions ha ha :) I want someone to challenge me, but not be cruel. I want someone to make me laugh, but not act like a teenager. I want someone to be romantic, but also be able to let me have "me" time. Basically I want a partner in life. Since I have a child, pretty much my only option is long term because anything less would just be too complicated. Again with that being said...I am not looking to jump into anything but I would be more than happy to let the chips fall where they do.
If all of this hasn't sent you running for the hills, I'd love to hear from you! Happy hunting :)