I am a happy mother, seeking a guy with a big heart. A stable/successful guy that avoids drama or being cruel to others. My ten-year marriage ended on a raw note. I have been divorced a year took some time and decided to start putting myself out there (I loved being married but he cheated and that's a deal breaker). I am honest, loyal, and looking for that one guy who appreciates that above all else.
I am grateful for my children and so I may not always have the time to be a "social butterfly" (I like to go out more for the exercise rather than to be entertained) however, I do enjoy going out and seeing you have a good time if that's what you enjoy. I am no stranger to fun. Live bands, to amusement parks, it's who your with that really matters (DMB). I love guys into sports and animals. We can have a lot of fun at home. What I am looking for is a guy with a healthy outlook on life and love. If you are messy, I will clean up after you. If you travel, I will adapt. The most important thing is how you see me fitting in your life? I have a laid back lifestyle. All kids come first (yours as well) and I wouldn't have it any other way. So it takes a real man to put family first and know he is a HERO for that. Believe me, it's worth it when you lay your head on my pillow at night.
I read any time I get a chance, but love playing on the floor or tossing a ball around the yard. When a man treats me like a lady, I melt, because that's how my Dad treats my Mom. I love the beach when its warm. Let me know what you are looking for - If I cannot provide it, I won't waste your time. I do hope when a guy gets to know me, he is attracted to all aspects about me. Don't lead me on if having kids is a deal breaker...or my tattoos. My back has some ink, and, oh, I do not like to be called "sweet-heart" on a first date. Just remember, I don't take myself so seriously - you can bust my balls as I will call you out on your crap too.
The perfect guy would encourage me to work out with him. But if you don't want to, I wont force it. Currently, I am in NC and enjoy going to shows in the Charlotte area. Dating seems so awkward since I have everything I really want right next to me. I am comfortable alone. I am warm when you need to be loved. But do not always expect me to be your entertainment. Yet, I am pretty good at entertaining friends if I want. I do prefer a man with children, and being friends first, just to adjust to having someone in my life again. I want someone to grow with. To turn me on. To be apart of inside jokes with. I have a great sense of humour (I am never bored/restless) so I guess that's why I am looking for a real nice guy that can fix stuff around the house when things break and can put me in a good mood when its night time. Sorry, I am not a member of this site as of yet. I am testing the waters before I make a huge commitment to running with on-line dating. It's practical and fun --however it is overwhelming -- so I would hope that a guy would go out of their way to show me how much they like me. My name is Sande. I hope I find a charming guy ready to settle down once and for all on someone as awesome as me. I am a really good friend to have and I appreciate a person that encourages me to get out of my own "comfort zone"
I am not judgemental. I will not be pushed around by a manipulative person. I will call things like it is without being too mean. I will speak up against injustice.
Favorite Music: Dave Matthews, Pearl Jam, Lana Del Rey, Stones, Beatles, Shaun Hopper, Zeppelin, Anything on Vinyl that I grew up with, great lyrics, sexy and slow, and classics