Well I guess this is the fun part:/ I'm a 40 yr old single mom, that loves to still go out and have fun. I like to stay in shape and eat pretty healthy for the most part. Just looking for someone I can really connect with. This seems to get harder the older I get. I love to laugh, I'm usually pretty quick and witty. I love doing almost anything out doors. So, I'm not your girly girl that's afraid to get dirty and wants to look like barbie. That type of lifestyle is no fun and not for me. I like to camp out in a tent still. I like to fish occasionally, love to hike, boat, travel, or anything new pretty much. I'm financially stable. I don't need a man to take care of me and I don't want one I have to take care of either. I want to be with someone in a relationship in which we can complement each other. I'm sorry guys if you sit around, drink beer and have the gut to prove it, no offense,but I WILL NOT be attracted to you. I work hard to take care of myself. I expect the same out of you. All of us adults should know what we are attracted to, so I don't expect you guys to be offended by this, even though I'm sure there are plenty of you that will be. Oh yes, Let me add one more thing. I am not religious, I do have good morals. I just don't believe in organized religion and I am not looking for someone to convert me either.. I feel I have to put this since we are in the bible belt and this seems to be a matter of dissension among a lot of people.