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40 year old man
Chicago, Illinois, United States

Seeking:
women 25-40
Within:
30 Miles of Chicago, Illinois, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Regularly

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Buy me a drink, I'm new in town! Then let me buy you one while you tell me what you love about Chicago.

I'm an engineer and I moved here in January. (Ok, new-ish in town.) I work in the Loop and have a condo in Lakeview. I think I’m a catch but I don't date as much as I'd like because I don't meet a lot of single women (why I’m here, of course) and I'm selective with the ones I do meet. Here’s an observation I've made about guys: the male traits that are the most desirable to women - looks and confidence - often go hand in hand with arrogance, insensitivity, and generally being a jerk. And guess who he hides this from the longest. That’s right, you - the woman he’s trying to impress. While I definitely don’t consider myself god’s gift to women, I’m here to tell you that there are guys out there who are confident and decent looking (…and smart, well-groomed, not stinky, have excellent credit, are pretty good at table tennis…) and also know how to treat people. I'm one, and I think anyone who knows me well would agree. Even ex-girlfriends, believe it or not.

What I’m looking for in a woman is surprisingly hard to find: a good combination of intelligent, attractive, and fun. Admittedly those are all subjective qualities and maybe my standards are too high for one or more. But I don’t think I should, or even could, lower my standards just because I haven’t found the right woman yet.

Ideally she’ll be a thinker. Someone who will challenge me. And like me an empathetic person who will sense my feelings and try to please me, but at the same time won’t be shy with her own desires. How can I dote on you if I don’t know what you want? (Believe it or not this has actually been a problem for me before. It’s at the same time frustrating and endearing, which of course makes it even more frustrating.)

You might think I look great on paper (or on screen, rather) and write a mean e-mail and I probably feel the same about you. But let’s not get too excited just yet. We don’t know squat till we talk face to face. So let’s not over-think it and just meet for a drink.

Finally, I humbly request you use some integrity on this site. Don't express interest if you don't intend to follow it up to its logical conclusion, meeting in person. (Short of me doing something offensive or repulsive, of course.) I'm not saying I expect you to meet me immediately. I'm saying don't write a couple e-mails then just stop replying without explanation. And for the love of god don't make a date unless you plan to keep it. What kind of person does that? I know, there are lots of guys out there doing crappy things too. But that's not how I am, and I never assume a woman is until it happens. It never ceases to amaze and disappoint me how few people behave with actual integrity - doing the right thing rather than the easy one.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Golf, Dancing, Running, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, Hockey
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Don't display my sign
College:
Purdue University, West Lafayette, IN
For fun:

I play ice hockey and golf, work out regularly, and spend time with my family. I'm a big music lover - I buy a lot of CDs (yes, still) and go to concerts regularly. Also, I don't do it often, but I like to dance. And that's not a line.

Favorite hot spots:

When it comes to food, places, travel, and most things I feel that variety is the spice of life. I’d be bored by a woman who wants me to take her to Applebee’s every week. Think sushi, Thai, Cajun… and the next interesting thing that pops up.

Favorite things:

Whiskers on roses and raindrops on kittens. Oh, and soup.

Last read:

Finished the Game of Thrones books much sooner than I expected, so now I'm reading various filler novels waiting for Winds of Winter. Who knew 5,000 pages would go by so quickly? Come on Martin, write like the wind!

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
4'10" (147cms) to 5'8" (172cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Occasionally, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Regularly
No preference
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I'm a structural engineer. I work with architects to design buildings.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian, Other
Faith:
Christian / Catholic
No preference
Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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