Someone sane, honest, decisive and believable. Good communicator, sees the glass half full instead of half empty. We're all here for various reasons, but the one thing we have in common, is we're looking for someone special. That will likely require being someone special first! Adventurous with a GREAT sense of humor really helps. I've traveled quite a bit, even lived in Japan, where I taught english. I don't have any racial, ethnic or cultural hangups. Appealing to the status quo has never been my cup of tea.