I am 40 yrs young. I am currently in the Military, but I am in the process of getting out. I am also currently in school for Massage Therapist. I will be licensed before I retire, so that I can transistion from the Military to Civilian life with as little trouble as possible.
**update: I now have a second job part time doing security/hosting work. For an explanation on that inbox me.
I am looking for a relationship with a guy that are into some of the same things that I am. These include loyalty, trust, honesty, communication and friendship. If you are looking for a one night stand then I am not the woman for you. I don't play games when to comes to being in a relationship. Now a little about me. I am caring, honest, hard worker,like to laugh and fun. I will try anything once, twice if I like it. There isn't much that I don't like to do, but right now I keep pretty busy doing school work. I have to do so many hours a week of practice massage.
I help out at the paintball field when there are tournaments. I am a certified PSP ref, and if you are into paintball then you know what that means. I like to go white water rafting, 4 wheeling, and someday I want to skydive. I am very loyal to my friends. And yes my friends are my family too.
Physical attraction is just one of the things that I look for in a relationship but not the most important thing. If after a couple of dates, there is no true communication then I will probably end it. I want someone that I can talk to and carry on a conversation with. I give it a couple of dates, because you might be just as nervous about dating as I am. I can have a perverted sense of humor at times, but that comes from being in the military. I don't judge people by their past. Mine isn't the best past in the world but it has made me who I am today. And I do try to learn from my mistakes. That is truely the only way to be a better person. I believe you should treat others as you want to be treated. If you lie to someone then don't get mad when they start lieing to you. Just an example.
