I'd like for him to be generous, kind and considerat of others. He must want children or have children. Must have a job (lol). If he has children, I will do my best to treat them as my own. I'm a very caring woman and I have been there before. I miss my ex-step children all the time. I would like for my next relationship to be based on honesty. There has to be a foundation and you have to start somewhere.